Yeah, we know, we re all short, small or/and skinny kids / men on here with no father figures, raised by single mothers who struggle in life and think that looking like arnold s will make us happy until we understand life is about so much more than this. Some will eventually grow out of it as they age finding some guidance, and a lot of others will be stuck in this immature , autistic obsession of wanting to become ''bigger'' at all costs, to compensate for the fact they had no father figure, a weak confidence, low self esteem deeply embeded in them as a result, and that's assuming there arent other weaknesses like being short/being unintelligent, uneducated, or having a small cock/being fugly, at play simultaenously.
Some guys are obsessed by big muscles and ''strong father'' (roided actors, super heroes etc) figures because it gives them what they didnt have, what they dont have being raised by a single mother and few or no father figure at all during childhood and adolescence. They spend their whole life attempting to regain their virility that has been shut down forever by the lack of a caring father. They re often extremistic in everything they do, in the way they think, have psycho behavorial troubles, because basically they have a personnality that is too feminine. They try to hide it by overcompensating exagerely adopting looks and attitudes that they hope will hide the fact they re weak minded pansies.
Sons raised by decent fathers are balanced, have less difficulties adaptating to the real world and are more mature sooner, dont fall for most of life's traps as they re constantly and correctly adivsed by their fathers. Others just spend their whole life trying to get what they didnt have , hitting all the walls at full speed one after another. A lot dont see their 50s.
Yes, lifting weights can be good for health and sex appeal, but it doesnt change the fact that life is about so much more than just being muscular to impress people who most of the time dont give a fuck about muscles. Intelligence, money, power are what's important. Being loved by signifcant ones is what s important. Contributing, giving as much as you receive, is what's important. Your pathetic muscles are only 1 % of what life is about. And newsflashs; there s always someone bigger than you and there s a new sucker without a father figure born every second who will attempt to compensate by getting bigger than everyone else.
Yes, spending your life caring only about your muscles means there is something wrong with you. Yes it borders on homosexuality. Yes most men without a father figure are obsessive about muscles , theirs, and other men muscles because they want to become that perfect dad they never had, and want more than anything that love they never had, even if it means for some taking another old man s cock in their ass, one excess leading to another. Considering most sons without a father become manual workers and dont earn a lot of money, have no serious studies, education, they stagnate in the lower, nastier layers of the social pyramid and are more prone to do the stupidest, gayest shit to survive, they become filthy indivduals who only adapt by backstabing others every chance they get, that s what they learnt from the interactions between their own family members when they were young.
You can enjoy a healthy lifestyle, practise physical conditionning without being extremistic, obsessive about it and caring about others as much as you care about yourself. You can be balanced, and exist for others things that are more important at the same time than just being focused on your appearance. But it takes a sane, healhty, guided mind to do so, something very few have because they come from dysfunctonnal families with no or poor father figures.
Considering there s a growing number of sons raised by single mothers, the bodybuilding industry (homos, supplement and steroids dealers)have a nice future.
