Ex-husband wins back child support after DNA tests show he was not the FATHER

[MikMaq]

I agree. If she knew when he was 4, she should of woman up and been more truthful. None the less, he wasn't asked to be born, how can someones feelings change for a child. He helped raise him for what 14 years when he found out. That makes him the dad, not the blood line

So would you raise a 14 year old kid, that your ex husband had, if he never mentioned he was having an affair and you had no idea the kid was yours.

[Coach is Back!]

The kid needs HIS OWN DAD... The one that slut slept with... That's the person who should be out at the ball park with the kid... Not convenient Dad who happened to be married to the tramp.

You are a decent guy Joe, but you are really misguided here.

Forcing this guy to be a "father" is like socialism... Saying that the kid's needs are so much more important than the adult who has NO responsibility to that kid in the first place.

Are you a 99%er Coach... Are you?

1. I agree but in 14 years has this kids dad ever came forward? No, not that I've read and chances are until this kid is an adult and the hopefully the guilt has set in...he won't and then it's too late.

2. Like "socialism"? I didn't say he HAD to I was suggesting it's the RIGHT thing to do.

And as I'm writing this looking at my own 14 year old on the opposite couch watching football with me, I'm thinking to myself if that was me and my ex had done that to me......I wouldn't (and couldn't) love him any less. It's not the kids fault and yes....he's the big loser in all of this.

[Coach is Back!]

So would you raise a 14 year old kid, that your ex husband had, if he never mentioned he was having an affair and you had no idea the kid was yours.

It's the right thing to do...it wasn't the kids fault.

[Dr.J]

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[bike nut]

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[theheman]

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[Radical Plato]

I would say it's only that low because of religious families pumping out kids.

Not sayin' religious people don't cheat, but the women in those families (like mormons) are far less likely to attract a man.

[Spicoli]

LMFAO!!!   no black in me       

Not yet anyway. Just hope you dont go to prison any time soon.
just playin 

[Spicoli]

something like 1-3% of kids are not their nominal father's children  

Just watched a documentary on this a few weeks ago. The real % is roughly 1/3.    33% of the children walking this earth come from someone elses ball sack than the man they beleive to be their father.
Thats a scary thought. Seeing as I have 3 kids. chances are 1 is not mine. OUCH!!!!!! Now even more fucked up is I wonder how many men are raising kids of mine as well?

[delta9mda]

Isn't plowing them in the ass a whole lot easier?

thats where lawyers come from

[Wiggs]

she should pay him back. Stinks he walked out of that kids life though.

no it doesnt.  it's not his and its the c u n t s fault. i dont blame him at all.

[Wiggs]

Probably a lot of anger and it does speak about his character.

I know this guy who married a girl who was already pregnant when he met her.

When the kid was born, he signed the birth certificate just like he was the father. They got divorced later and he STILL continued to be the father of that child.

He never once said anything about him not being the dad... Only when the kid was about 16 did both parents finally come clean.

He's that kids father and that's the way it is.

Where i'm from, we call those suckers.

[tu_holmes]

Where i'm from, we call those suckers.

Well, he never paid any child support for the kid... he just treated the kid like his own.

I wouldn't have done it.

[Wiggs]

he manned up when he thought it was his for 14 years. as soon as he found out it wasn't, he bailed. That's not manning up that him in relief of himself selfishly seeing his way out. Thats being a pussy thats abandoning a kid who obviously needed a "father" in his life. If any one on this board would actually do that to a kid that needs him, then they should REALLY think about having a family.

don't be a dipshit coach. it's not his. it's the mothers fault....MOTHERS FAULT. The guy has every right to bounce and not be judged. The mother should be punished not this guy.

[Mjolnir]

Let's put the boot on the other foot - how would you all feel as a 14yo boy who grew up with his 'dad' and then your 'dad' suddenly leaves the house and says you aren't my boy anymore? You would feel like shit and would wonder what you did wrong! This kid doesn't understand his mom is a whore he just knows his dad no longer wants anything to do with him.  If the relationship between 'father' and son was good he should have just kept on with it and collected the money from the whore, no need to punish the kid for the mother's mistake.  I reckon there's more to this story than we're being told.

[Wiggs]

Let's put the boot on the other foot - how would you all feel as a 14yo boy who grew up with his 'dad' and then your 'dad' suddenly leaves the house and says you aren't my boy anymore? You would feel like shit and would wonder what you did wrong! This kid doesn't understand his mom is a whore he just knows his dad no longer wants anything to do with him.  If the relationship between 'father' and son was good he should have just kept on with it and collected the money from the whore, no need to punish the kid for the mother's mistake.  I reckon there's more to this story than we're being told.

No ifs and other foots bullshit. Look at it as it is.
SLUT MOTHER
VICTIM CHILD
SAP Raising child.

Sap should be free to go at anytime. While heartless, I can understand what he did and it will be the mothers fault the kid is fucked for life.....Hope she dies depressed...whore.

So glad I dont have children.

[Mjolnir]

My point is, there doesn't need to be a child victim! Plenty of guys grew with mom's that are ho's and turned out ok.  If the relationship between the man and th boy was good he should have just kept being his dad he didn't have to live in the same house, doesn't have to pay child support so it could have been fine.  I have afeeling that all was not well between man and boy and that's why he cut off all contact, at least I hope that's what it was.

[Radical Plato]

No ifs and other foots bullshit. Look at it as it is.
SLUT MOTHER
VICTIM CHILD
SAP Raising child.

Sap should be free to go at anytime. While heartless, I can understand what he did and it will be the mothers fault the kid is fucked for life.....Hope she dies depressed...whore.

So glad I dont have children.

x 100

[newmom]

So would you raise a 14 year old kid, that your ex husband had, if he never mentioned he was having an affair and you had no idea the kid was yours.

absofuckinglutely. I have no doubts I would. Even if my ex (daughter father) has a child with his current, I'd welcome that kid in my house, because that's my daughters half brother or sister.

Again, blood doesn't make you family either

[dr.chimps]

LMFAO!!!   no black in me       

That's what James Watson said. His DNA test said different.   

[Radical Plato]

This kid doesn't understand his mom is a whore

Hey, the kids 14, he has known his mother was a whore for quite some time now.  Men are biologically programmed to be able to detect a whore quite easily.  Similar to mating behaviour.  Every man within a 5km radius of this women knew she was a whore.

[Wiggs]

Hey, the kids 14, he has known his mother was a whore for quite some time now.  Men are biologically programmed to be able to detect a whore quite easily.  Similar to mating behaviour.  Every man within a 5km radius of this women knew she was a whore.

lol...true....you just kinda know who the whores are.

[Nomad]

well perhaps it wouldn't of been an easy situation but that kid is almost 12 I'll say. Sit him down and be honest with him. Perhaps she thought it was his (NO WAY am I sticking up for the mother). He was in his life since jump street. That kid wasn't asked to be born. How can you just leave a kid dangling like that. Blood don't make you family

lol female logic...why are you blaming the man for this 

[Parker]

So many men all around the globe are raising kids thinking it's their own child when it really isn't.  It should be mandatory that every man ought to get a DNA test.  I'm sure if this kind of thing was happening to women then there would probably a law to have it done for this.  On the same topic check this out:

There is a saying, "Feed him 'til he looks like you."

[Radical Plato]

lol female logic...why are you blaming the man for this 

This is the problem with women, they are blind to their own and other womens evil doing all the while pretending to be saintly and non whore like - all the while they have no problem ruining a good mans life with their pussy.  Thank God we can beat the shit out of those bitches any time we like.