"LOLZ" 
Thanks for proving my point for me...ONE sentence from me gets a 500 word meltdown from you, and I wasn't even addressing you 
...seek therapy
Only the first sentences was adressed to you, you took the rest of it, as that's what your ego saw.
Because people have more leisure time due to increased confort allowed by progress and technology, they tend to focus more on themselves in their spare time while abandoning relationships with others. As most occidentals only focus on themselves, they have more and more troubles raising kids who become even bigger narcissic than their own parents. Throw in the abandoning of religion and the birth of TV and then of the internet, and you obtain the shit we re living in nowadays. Of course a good use of all of this could be made, but there will be a need for a big fresh start first before people know what to use and how without being destroyed by it.
Having a decent and realistic view of yourself has nothing to do with being a narcissist. Narcissists only use others to make them themselves feel better, and dont give anything in return most of the time. They often come from dysfunctional families where parents both were only caring about their own needs before those of the family and kids as a united whole.
That's actually a bit of a myth there's a lot of research into this shit, and narcisisst are just average in every way you look at it, aside from the fact they devote large amounts of time trying to make themselves look good, as they totally believe their that good.
The problem with women is what alot of getbiggers run into, as so many women are full of themselves even those that pretend to be insecure really aren't. Alot of research has been done to prove these people aren't acting to compensate for some void but actually believe they're special, as their parents set them up with this bias in childhood. Just look at how many dads call their daughters princess, this might just be a cute nickname but it says alot how women especially attractive women are treated in our society. The age of marketing created the modern form of the narcissist. At the same time these people have convinced us as a society that people that are self involved are highly successful, attractive(when there just average), and actually add to society. The truth is they usually cause more chaos in the work places than is commonly understood.
They cause massive distortions in the interview process, tend to get promoted as managers even though in the long term prove to be extremely problamatic in the workplace, and their walking bllboards for credit card companies.
