Elegant, smart, faithful, educated enough women coming from stable families are taught by their fathers and mothers not to date losers (sons abandonned by their fathers and badly raised by single moms) because they mean troubles. They can detect them from a mile.
Yet, they can recognize such a guy who wants to better himself and give him a chance. They can have pity for a guy whose parents separated and offer him the opportunity to repair his past. But if you shit on this oportunity, you re the worst asshole ever, period.
When your father left your mother and condemend both you and sisters/brothers and mother to a lot of pain and the terrible possibility of reproducing what he exposed you to, you better not listening to him anymore.
Just aim for a girl who s working while studying, isnt superificial, is down to earth, has family values and knows how to be a caring mother for both her man and eventual kids. Teach her sex (balanced sexual acts, not extremistic shit, do not search to perform, casual normal sex with love is what lasts the longest) , how to get in shape and go thru life together. You re wasting your time if you dont.
Stay balanced, quit the extremes. Lots of hapiness to be found in sincere, prosaic, everyday stable love. But it requires a lot of courage and sacrifices.
Women just like what is balanced, what is not extreme, as it means you re able to adapt to everything = maximum odds of survival. They want a guy with a good job, but that doenst take too much time, who earns good money but wont care only about material goods, who s muscular but not too much, who s nice, but not too much, who s a beast in bed most of the time but adapt to their feelings on the moment, who will force them to suck his hard veiny cock some times until they moan like babies, but will lick their clit at others... who will cuddle but not too much, who will not hesitate to slap them once in a while when they go overboard but will also discuss with them when they re depressed...who has friends and spend time socializing with them but not too much and who will also care about her and kids... Who will be nice to kids, but not too nice either and will teach them respect...
This is how it truly works. Balance. It is perfection in people minds. It is maximum capacity of adaptation, maximum odds of survival whatever happens. Extremes are repulsive to most.
And, men want exactly the same thing of a woman.
Men dont give a fuck if a woman earns a good income, her place is in the kitchen, in the gym, and in kids sleeping room. Sometimes woman can go visit one or two good old reliable friends to socialize -if they think like your man does-, and maybe your parents -when they re not in conflict with your man's views-, but that's about it. Woman, You re suposed to have enough time to take care of the house,kids and most importantly your man.
Also wether a woman works 20 hour s a week at the local walmart or is a business executive working 60 hours a week -and neglecting kids and husband- doesnt matter the least to men. Actually i dont know any man who enjoys his woman earns more than him or sacrify time spent with him and/or kids to focus on a ''career''. Women are not suposed to have a career. Only power hungry women who want to dominate men do.
Some women get it right, and accept their condition. They re called happy women. Women are here to help men, men are here to dominate women in a benevolent way. We re not talking about unhealthy domination. It s about teaching them life. Men are teachers for women and kids.
Love cannot be found in emotionless, casual sex which is an addiction that never fulfils men and women who ve been designed to create a stable, happy family. Sex is for reproduction and then to keep men and women together (if sexual life is satysfying between them) so they ll raise kids in peace until they can leave home by themselves. If women cannot provide fulfiling sex to their men then everything will collapse. Most of the time they cant cause they havent been taught by their mothers/grandmothers how to handle this part of life. The other extreme is women who only are good at sex but nothing else much and always want to dominate men but cannot become mothers.
