what do I do. Kid isn't mine.

[Iceman1981]

duno how to handle this. Anyone else ever deal with it. Finding out there kid isn't there's.

she didn't tell me. I had to find out. She was still emailing her ex telling him she loves him n always have always will.i knew time frames always didn't match up when she got preganant. Finally I find truth in a secret email.

wtf do I do. Kid is 1 yrs old. After I found out I broke her down she admitted everything. But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave. I'm confused cause she is going crazy trying to make sure I won't leave her. So it seems she does love. Obv she's promising to never talk to him again like before.... I caught her almost 2 yrs ago before emailing n txting him telling him she loves him n still wants to be with him.

so its twice now I been emotionally cheated on n this times even more fucked up.

wtf do I do. I dunom all there's pictures of me holding this kid... Wtf....  She keeps telling me she wants me to be her farther n be with her...

what do I do.

Comments by bolds above^^^^^^:

1) "she didn't tell me I had to find out." : If she didn't tell you, you would never of found out.

2) "wtf do I do?" : Get the hell out of this relationship. The whole thing has been a lie on her part.

3) "But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave." : Of course she will say she doesn't love him and doesn't want you to leave. It's the first thing that came to her mind.

If I were you I would leave her. Plain and simple. She lied about having your kid and God knows what else. It's time to man up and leave.

This happened to my Uncle last year, but he stayed with the cheating bitch and now every time he takes her to a family event or whatever, he looks like a pussy in everyone's eyes.

GTFO OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Raymondo]

If that's not fatpanda i don't know what is  

what happened eventually to fatpanda?

[makaveli25]

Dump the bitch and gfto as fast as you can. Don't be a fool!

[Balloon]

This situation is stickier than a Pierre Woodman audition tape

[wes]

what happened eventually to fatpanda?

He became "lubeyourman" !

[Raymondo]

He became "lubeyourman" !

LOOL

[apply85]

ive always thought uberman was an adonis gimmick

[kyomu]

As many say, its crystal clear that you must go and you know it clearly before building this thread.
So, if you dont do it, you will live the rest of your life with misery. Even She and her kid leave you for her ex, you will repeat same kind of thing in the future.
Its time for the change or you will stay the same forever.The compasion or your feeling are not sacred like you think. THATS JUST YOUR PREJUDICE.
YOU KNOW THAT.

[Lumberjack88]

Haha.. uberman cracks me up! I've never seen anyone like him... mixing psychology and religion and using it to constantly point out flaws of other people...

Time and time again, you tell almost everyone on here that their parents are bad, that they have had a suboptimal upbringing etc.,
but assuming that your parents are devout christians, like you are, and that they base their morals on a book that's written by mortal humans, with no divine influence whatsoever, almost 2000 years ago, how good an upbringing could you have had yourself?

Why is your christian upbringing superior to those who have had more secular upbringings and what exactly makes you think that you're so much better than anyone else, regarding morals? I mean... if god speaks to you one day... and wants you to sacrifice your own son or daughter... I think you're a person that could do it.. it's still god above all for you... so I'm not sure why you think that you have the moral high ground in these discussions?

[Nomad]

is it meltdown time yet?

[Beefjake]

So, is your name on the birth certificate?
 If it is, you are obliged to pay alimony for the kid (mother) even if you leave.
I think you'll need mothers permission and a DNA test to "undo" that.

If you decide to stay, at least sue the real father for alimony. You'll be screwed in the end
anyway so at least you'll might be able to put something aside for yourself for the future.

Oh Shit... You'll just en up hating the kid, whose not in fault, as well.

Check the legal stuff and leave.

Now.

[newmom]

So, is your name on the birth certificate?
 If it is, you are obliged to pay alimony for the kid (mother) even if you leave.
I think you'll need mothers permission and a DNA test to "undo" that.

If you decide to stay, at least sue the real father for alimony. You'll be screwed in the end
anyway so at least you'll might be able to put something aside for yourself for the future.

Oh Shit... You'll just en up hating the kid, whose not in fault, as well.

Check the legal stuff and leave.

Now.

he does NOT need the mothers permission. He can take the child to "the park" and get it done. She'd be none the wiser. I wouldn't tell her about the test.

[Xerxes]

Haha.. uberman cracks me up! I've never seen anyone like him... mixing psychology and religion and using it to constantly point out flaws of other people...

Time and time again, you tell almost everyone on here that their parents are bad, that they have had a suboptimal upbringing etc.,
but assuming that your parents are devout christians, like you are, and that they base their morals on a book that's written by mortal humans, with no divine influence whatsoever, almost 2000 years ago, how good an upbringing could you have had yourself?

Why is your christian upbringing superior to those who have had more secular upbringings and what exactly makes you think that you're so much better than anyone else, regarding morals? I mean... if god speaks to you one day... and wants you to sacrifice your own son or daughter... I think you're a person that could do it.. it's still god above all for you... so I'm not sure why you think that you have the moral high ground in these discussions?

Tell me, what god fearing nice christian man, who has had a great upbringing where his parents did a great job, end up on a messageboard on the internet to give everyone unsolicited pseudo intellectual psychology advice - based on nothing? Does this sound like a person who's a beacon of mental health?

[Dr Dutch]

Cyrus drops in and shakes things up, I like that.. too bad I gotta go, just got called in to the clinic...

[Parker]

Haha.. uberman cracks me up! I've never seen anyone like him... mixing psychology and religion and using it to constantly point out flaws of other people...

Time and time again, you tell almost everyone on here that their parents are bad, that they have had a suboptimal upbringing etc.,
but assuming that your parents are devout christians, like you are, and that they base their morals on a book that's written by mortal humans, with no divine influence whatsoever, almost 2000 years ago, how good an upbringing could you have had yourself?

Why is your christian upbringing superior to those who have had more secular upbringings and what exactly makes you think that you're so much better than anyone else, regarding morals? I mean... if god speaks to you one day... and wants you to sacrifice your own son or daughter... I think you're a person that could do it.. it's still god above all for you... so I'm not sure why you think that you have the moral high ground in these discussions?

if your parents are BabyBoomers, unless they are old skool, then chances are they effed up when it comes to parenting...that's why Gen X and Y are the way they are now...

[Parker]

And sadly, nobody thinks of the real victim, the kid. The kid has to find out that "daddy" is not his real daddy, and may find out that his real "daddy" is not really a good father. And how will the kid adjust, because obviously, he's been accustom to calling dude daddy. Mommy owN selfish bitch thinking of herself, playing cuckhold. Uproot and turn a kid's whole life upside down, all because of a lie and selfish ego...

[Mjolnir]

Lyquid- I know you'll make the right decision for yourself, you can't live your life for others especially in the situation you're in.  It sounds like you have head your head in the sand a little over this and it's time to face up to the reality of the situationand do what's best for you.

For those replying to Lubeyourmom's bullshit - just ignore this retard, this will be the biggest punishment for someone with an ego this huge! If nobody replies to his posts then he will realise no one is reading his dribble and he will be crushed, replying to him just feeds the ego of a tragic little man and makes himself feel good by putting others down.

[deadz]

duno how to handle this. Anyone else ever deal with it. Finding out there kid isn't there's.

she didn't tell me. I had to find out. She was still emailing her ex telling him she loves him n always have always will.i knew time frames always didn't match up when she got preganant. Finally I find truth in a secret email.

wtf do I do. Kid is 1 yrs old. After I found out I broke her down she admitted everything. But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave. I'm confused cause she is going crazy trying to make sure I won't leave her. So it seems she does love. Obv she's promising to never talk to him again like before.... I caught her almost 2 yrs ago before emailing n txting him telling him she loves him n still wants to be with him.

so its twice now I been emotionally cheated on n this times even more fucked up.

wtf do I do. I dunom all there's pictures of me holding this kid... Wtf....  She keeps telling me she wants me to be her farther n be with her...

what do I do.

^^^^pure beta. Your lack of Alpha disgusts me.

[BAST]

duno how to handle this. Anyone else ever deal with it. Finding out there kid isn't there's.

she didn't tell me. I had to find out. She was still emailing her ex telling him she loves him n always have always will.i knew time frames always didn't match up when she got preganant. Finally I find truth in a secret email.

wtf do I do. Kid is 1 yrs old. After I found out I broke her down she admitted everything. But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave. I'm confused cause she is going crazy trying to make sure I won't leave her. So it seems she does love. Obv she's promising to never talk to him again like before.... I caught her almost 2 yrs ago before emailing n txting him telling him she loves him n still wants to be with him.

so its twice now I been emotionally cheated on n this times even more fucked up.

wtf do I do. I dunom all there's pictures of me holding this kid... Wtf....  She keeps telling me she wants me to be her farther n be with her...

what do I do.

i'm sure she does want you to be the father because fathers pay money

[bike nut]

I have absolutely no doubt the kid ends up on a stripper pole at some point in her life.

Just saying'......

[che]

Is she hot?

[bike nut]

Except it seems it s a He, not a she. But it might well be the future of groink s daughter, and also the future of the new woman's daughter he s with now.

Also the original poster went from "I ve been owned and made a cuckhold but I love the kid that isnt mine what should I do" , which seemed quite plausible and heart shattering that even I fell for it,
 
to :

"maybe it's my own kid, in fact i dont know i have to do a dna test first... but thanks all you convinced me to abandon them once im sure it's my own kid".


The fuck in hell is that crap ?




He's just lost soul in the end who obviously has no real serious support hence the need to come on fucking getbig to get advices on how to manage existential questions.

I think that, to sumerize, most told him to flee if it is proved it s not his kid which  even I enjoined him to do, but I told him to man up and accept his responsabilities if it's actually his kid, to keep the mother in fucking check -whats wrong with you guys seriously...-, while most didnt even understand dude was a class A confused liar who bullshited them in order to get pity advises to convince himself it was the right thing to abandon his responsabilities.

I'm going to guess he was "the other man" and the reason her ex left in the first place.

I did get a chuckle out of the guys telling him to secure his assets. Like a 20 year old, that spells and writes like he's in the 3rd grade really has a pot to piss in.

[Stavios]

Except it seems it s a He, not a she. But it might well be the future of groink s daughter, and also the future of the new woman's daughter he s with now.

Also the original poster went from "I ve been owned and made a cuckhold but I love the kid that isnt mine what should I do" , which seemed quite plausible and heart shattering that even I fell for it,
 
to :

"maybe it's my own kid, in fact i dont know i have to do a dna test first... but thanks all you convinced me to abandon them once im sure it's my own kid".


The fuck in hell is that crap ?




He's just lost soul in the end who obviously has no real serious support hence the need to come on fucking getbig to get advices on how to manage existential questions.

I think that, to sumerize, most told him to flee if it is proved it s not his kid which  even I enjoined him to do, but I told him to man up and accept his responsabilities if it's actually his kid, to keep the mother in fucking check -whats wrong with you guys seriously...-, while most didnt even understand dude was a class A confused liar who bullshited them in order to get pity advises to convince himself it was the right thing to abandon his responsabilities.

of course if it is his kid he needs to keep his responsabilities toward him, that's common sense.

[Palpatine Q]

Except it seems it s a He, not a she. But it might well be the future of groink s daughter, and also the future of the new woman's daughter he s with now.

Also the original poster went from "I ve been owned and made a cuckhold but I love the kid that isnt mine what should I do" , which seemed quite plausible and heart shattering that even I fell for it,
 
to :

"maybe it's my own kid, in fact i dont know i have to do a dna test first... but thanks all you convinced me to abandon them once im sure it's my own kid".


The fuck in hell is that crap ?




He's just lost soul in the end who obviously has no real serious support hence the need to come on fucking getbig to get advices on how to manage existential questions.

I think that, to sumerize, most told him to flee if it is proved it s not his kid which  even I enjoined him to do, but I told him to man up and accept his responsabilities if it's actually his kid, to keep the mother in fucking check -whats wrong with you guys seriously...-, while most didnt even understand dude was a class A confused liar who bullshited them in order to get pity advises to convince himself it was the right thing to abandon his responsabilities.

awwwwwww someone got their feelings hurt   

you are a douchebag, and are universally ridiculed...you fat retard 

[YoungBlood]

I still have the first page loaded up and I'm not going to read all 12 pages!

My advice is to run and run as fast as you can. For your sake, the kids mental health and to rid yourself of a crazy bitch that is willing to say you're the father of her kid and then turn around texting/emailing the true father of the kid behind your back telling him how much she still loves him.

You're caught in a serious web...easier said than done but get out and cut all ties NOW with the broad. Just as soon as you leave her you will find another girl. You will be able to invest your time in her and be far happier and better off.