what do I do. Kid isn't mine.

[lyquid]

duno how to handle this. Anyone else ever deal with it. Finding out there kid isn't there's.

she didn't tell me. I had to find out. She was still emailing her ex telling him she loves him n always have always will.i knew time frames always didn't match up when she got preganant. Finally I find truth in a secret email.

wtf do I do. Kid is 1 yrs old. After I found out I broke her down she admitted everything. But now tells me she doesn't love him n loves me n doesn't want me to leave. I'm confused cause she is going crazy trying to make sure I won't leave her. So it seems she does love. Obv she's promising to never talk to him again like before.... I caught her almost 2 yrs ago before emailing n txting him telling him she loves him n still wants to be with him.

so its twice now I been emotionally cheated on n this times even more fucked up.

wtf do I do. I dunom all there's pictures of me holding this kid... Wtf....  She keeps telling me she wants me to be her farther n be with her...

what do I do.

[Schmoff]

that sucks

are you married?

[The Abdominal Snoman]

Kid is 1 years old. Just get the fuk away from her and her ex's kid. You better off to do it now when the kid was zero memory of you then to suck it up and do it when he's 10 or something.

[Cashfan]

This wont end well, in fact its already over.  If you stay in this relationship this shit will continue to happen.  Sucks about the kid, but you dont need to bail on the child to do whats right for you.  Take some time, take a trip, I recommend Dubai, India.  Followed by a good workout of upright rows.

[The Abdominal Snoman]

Kid is 1 years old. Just get the fuk away from her and her ex's kid. You better off to do it now when the kid was zero memory of you then to suck it up and do it when he's 10 or something.

Leave now and don't look back and you will save a lot of money, time and lawyers fees for domestic violence down the road.

[lyquid]

that sucks

are you married?

no not married. (pretty nuch obv but not on paper

[lyquid]

This wont end well, in fact its already over.  If you stay in this relationship this shit will continue to happen.  Sucks about the kid, but you dont need to bail on the child to do whats right for you.  Take some time, take a trip, I recommend Dubai, India.  Followed by a good workout of upright rows.

lmfao wow thamks. Bee depressed all day soo upset tellig my mother kid isn't mine n all this balonie. N was laughin for once. About the upright row part to make me feel better

[lyquid]

Leave now and don't look back and you will save a lot of money, time and lawyers fees for domestic violence down the road.

that is the right thing to do isn't it. I know it is fo my mental health. Its just super hard this happene  today. So all I can think of is past yr with this fuckin kid. All the pictures all over the house of us my phone full of pics man. Like wtf. How ca wome do this. I am so totally lifeless. Heart broken bout this kid I thought was mine n heart broken reading a email of how madly in love she was with her ex n how he was her one n true only love.

[lyquid]

Leave now and don't look back and you will save a lot of money, time and lawyers fees for domestic violence down the road.

Leave now and don't look back and you will save a lot of money, time and lawyers fees for domestic violence down the road.

that is the right thing to do isn't it. I know it is fo my mental health. Its just super hard this happene  today. So all I can think of is past yr with this fuckin kid. All the pictures all over the house of us my phone full of pics man. Like wtf. How ca wome do this. I am so totally lifeless. Heart broken bout this kid I thought was mine n heart broken reading a email of how madly in love she was with her ex n how he was her one n true only love.

[PJim]

Sucks ass, but you need to get out of the situation ASAP.

[Nomad]

Secure all your financial assets immediatly. joint bank account = terminate it asap, shared cards = terminate that shit. Anything valuable in the house = move it into the trunk or your best friends place.

Haul ass bro

[hazbin]

she will never change. if you stay, you are basically giving her permission to continue the things she is doing.

[goomba420]

she will never change. if you stay, you are basically giving her permission to continue the things she is doing.

this this this this THIS. my mom cheatedo n my dad and he gave her another chance.. did it again and screwed him over financially. women are shitbags

[Red Hook]

Is your name on the birth certificate? because if it is you are really fucked! it's doesn't matter who the biological father is. What really matters is whose name is on the birthday certificate. Contact a lawyer asap.

Also as others have suggested secure anything that is not nailed down.

[Dr.J]

run......!!run forest run!!!!

[Schmoe Buster]

Leave Bro, you will suffer in the long term if you stay, just leave and get on with your life, but never make the kid feel it was their fault, its your gf and she is not worth it

[howardroark]

She's a crazy bitch. You need to leave her NOW.

[bladerunner]

She didnt show you any respect or consideration..she doesnt deserve you..in the long run it will hurt both you and the kid.

i agree with schome buster about not making the kid feeling like it was his fault..

[Vince B]

This is a tough one. No one wins here. I feel sad for the child because he will lose a Dad if you go.

You can no longer trust your girlfriend. She lies about the most important thing....her feelings. When women want the former boyfriend that can sting.

Anyway, the decision you have to make is how you feel about them. If you love them enough then that tells you what to do. She is in a very weak position at the moment.

One thing is certain. You will get more of the same from her. You can bank on that. We are all fools when it comes to love.

[bike nut]

PTPS

[Rearden Metal]

Secure all your financial assets immediatly. joint bank account = terminate it asap, shared cards = terminate that shit. Anything valuable in the house = move it into the trunk or your best friends place.

Haul ass bro

X2. Then go and don't look back.

Really shitty situation and she's put the worst con on you a person can. Don't let her manipulate you another minute.

[Stavios]

run

and never come back

suck bro, you must love the kid but this is for your own good

[galain]

Get yourself some good legal advice and like others have said, try and lock down your assets.

Same thing happened to a friend of mine (except his wife was cheating on him with her ex), same thing - broke down, confessed everlasting undying love, I'm an idiot, please forgive me it was just a horrible mistake, my life is yours etc etc etc.

My mate loved her, thought their 5 year old was his - he was torn up but he gave her another chance.

8 months later another friend give him the heads up that his wifes car was parked outside her ex's house all day. Another confontation, more tears, more confessions more forgiveness - seriously - my friend wanted the fairy tale and was willing to give anything for it.

Fast forward another 5 months, same thing but this time finally he says enough is enough. The little boy is now 6, has had his first day at school, it was just a horrible situation. The wife saw him as a provider sure, but nothing else. I don't know what the hell is wrong with some people. He's now a broken man, has started drinking, isn't working anymore and I worry for his future.

Don't let this happen to you bro. Do something now, but your girl, she had her chance. Don't reinforce her behaviour by telling her it's all ok and you'll let it slide. It won't stop.

[aesthetics]

run as fast as you can. look at how bad all of that sounds: she didn't tell you kid wasn't yours when she knew and emailing her ex about how much she misses him? she is just using you, get the hell out of there asap.

[Stavios]

Get yourself some good legal advice and like others have said, try and lock down your assets.

Same thing happened to a friend of mine (except his wife was cheating on him with her ex), same thing - broke down, confessed everlasting undying love, I'm an idiot, please forgive me it was just a horrible mistake, my life is yours etc etc etc.

My mate loved her, thought their 5 year old was his - he was torn up but he gave her another chance.

8 months later another friend give him the heads up that his wifes car was parked outside her ex's house all day. Another confontation, more tears, more confessions more forgiveness - seriously - my friend wanted the fairy tale and was willing to give anything for it.

Fast forward another 5 months, same thing but this time finally he says enough is enough. The little boy is now 6, has had his first day at school, it was just a horrible situation. The wife saw him as a provider sure, but nothing else. I don't know what the hell is wrong with some people. He's now a broken man, has started drinking, isn't working anymore and I worry for his future.

Don't let this happen to you bro. Do something now, but your girl, she had her chance. Don't reinforce her behaviour by telling her it's all ok and you'll let it slide. It won't stop.

damn it, it pisses me off reading stories like this