Ouch! Happy New Year to you too. With Worldwide access at your finger tips the Temptation factor has been multiplied by millions. Nobody is perfect and they gave into it. That's their problem not mine. One of the secrets to my success has always been learning from others mistakes. These guys aren't a bad bunch. Their eyes were just bigger then their stomachs and they are in the street because of it. A relationship is the hardest job you'll ever have. The person you are at 25 isn't going to have the same wants ands needs at 35. You have to keep this in mind when your thinking about committing to someone for life and I guess they didn't. Happy New Year.
They were searching for something, for what they are missing...our society has put into our heads, that whatever we have, that there is something better out there, human beings have become "disposable"---and women make themselves more available at the click of a button...
Basically, your friends don't think, and or rationalize---risk vs reward...I see it all the time...
True we all grow and our wants and needs are diff from 25 vs 35...just becareful, as I once met a 65 yr old man who married some 40 yr old pillhead that he knew for 8 yrs, all because "he didn't want to die alone".
We all do stupid things, it's the fact that your friend is making the same mistake millions make---thus, he's a human lemming, and now he's jumped over the cliff....
You have a happy good yr Chef Tim...ever tried a boiled Ostrich egg?