Date tonight. Question

[Jizzacked]

show up with a box of magnums and a box of wine and tell her both will be empty by the end of the night

[makaveli25]

A lot of excellent advice on this board. I'm newly single trying to get back into the swing of things. You learn something new everyday on this board  

That girl sounds like a bitch though bro. She shouldn't of changed your plans. It's not like you asked her to go to hooters for a bucket or beers and hot wings. Even thought that sounds great.

[QuakerOats]

show up with a box of magnums and a box of wine and tell her both will be empty by the end of the night

lol, the box of regular sized condoms..........err.... ..i mean........Trojan Ultra magnums will be a winner.

[AlphaMaleDawg]

ditto... Dinner on a first date spells out "desperation"... The first and second date are basically interviews...  Keep the cost down, but keep it fun.   if you get to the third date after doing that , chances are the girl likes you and is thinking of more to come.  Chances are also that something physical is or has already happened... then you can do dinner....

(I have spent many many pounds aquiring this knowledge!!!!)

agreed. dinner on the 3rd date. I usually get pussy by this time. It's a strategy that works more often than not

[wes]

A lot of excellent advice on this board. I'm newly single trying to get back into the swing of things. You learn something new everyday on this board 

That girl sounds like a bitch though bro. She shouldn't of changed your plans. It's not like you asked her to go to hooters for a bucket or beers and hot wings. Even thought that sounds great.

Good post......she should have just went where he suggested.....fucking spoiled kunt.

I like Hooters !

[makaveli25]

Good post......she should have just went where he suggested.....fucking spoiled kunt.

I like Hooters !

Me to bro I love hooters. We should have a getbig get together at hooters. Haha what a trip that would be.

[B_B_C]

show up with a box of magnums and a box of wine and tell her both will be empty by the end of the night

in most European countries a magnum is a choc ice (chocolate coated icecream on a stick)
its also a large bottle oc champaign

[GroinkTropin]

Aight. Against all sensibility I'm going to take the advice of Getbig and shake her. A shame as she seems quite friendly and I can just smell that there's a filthy whore tucked away under that designer clothes. I guess I'll go back to trolling local dives for damaged goods.  

Wtf against all sensibility you came here already suspecting what we all told you. You need affirmation to do what your heart already tells you to do. You lack character friend. Fix this immediately.

[nzmusclemonster]

When it comes to chicks..... They fuck.... or they can fuck off.

[bike nut]

The girl im dating now, I first met her in a quiet - not so expensive wine bar.  She arrived 15 minutes early, and text me asking what did I want to drink.. I replied and then when I arrived she was sitting at our table having bought a bottle of wine and two glasses... Thats what youre looking for my friend.

I'm fucking this chick behind her loser boyfriend's back...and she does exactly the same thing.
 

[booty]

The girl im dating now, I first met her in a quiet - not so expensive wine bar.  She arrived 15 minutes early, and text me asking what did I want to drink.. I replied and then when I arrived she was sitting at our table having bought a bottle of wine and two glasses... Thats what youre looking for my friend.

This is really thoughtful and the kind of person you want to date. 

[nosleep]

Honest answer: that's a real bad thing for a broad to do, change your plans. You took the initiative, she should agree, not correct you. I'd cancel the date politely.

THIS.

BEFORE UR FIRST DATE, SHE'S CALLING THE BIG BOY SHOTS. CAN YOU IMAGINE WHAT IT IS LIKE TO MAINTAIN HER?

[AlphaMaleDawg]

Well if you have already decided to turn her down anyway, and I don't blame you, you could try this approach, after all, you have nothing to lose right?

Email her back and say, "Well to be perfectly honest, that place is a bit more pricey than what I can afford." There is a small chance she may respect you for coming out and telling the truth. Also, doing that you are now putting her on the spot, because if she refuses to go out with you after saying that she is revealing herself to be the snobbish bitch she is.


Or, you could tell her that you had a bad experience at that place before....The waitress spilled a drink in your lap and refused to give you head in order to make up for it.  

I completely agree with this. You really have nothing to lose.

[bike nut]

This is really thoughtful and the kind of person you want to date. 

Thoughtful would have meant meeting him at his house, letting him drive her car to the bar while she gives him road head along the way.

[booty]

Thoughtful would have meant meeting him at his house, letting him drive her car to the bar while she gives him road head along the way.

That's a bit extreme for a first date.   

[wes]

Me to bro I love hooters. We should have a getbig get together at hooters. Haha what a trip that would be.

We`d get kicked out faster than shit most likely! 

[Army of One]

If a girl would have required the effort of making a post on a forum about her, before i even met her, then i would have just deleted her number,beaten one off to xhamster then fallen asleep.

[bike nut]

That's a bit extreme for a first date.   

Your mistake is assuming there will even be a second date....

[booty]

Your mistake is assuming there will even be a second date....

No, there can be a first date not followed by a second one. 

[Stavios]

Well if you have already decided to turn her down anyway, and I don't blame you, you could try this approach, after all, you have nothing to lose right?

Email her back and say, "Well to be perfectly honest, that place is a bit more pricey than what I can afford." There is a small chance she may respect you for coming out and telling the truth. Also, doing that you are now putting her on the spot, because if she refuses to go out with you after saying that she is revealing herself to be the snobbish bitch she is.

EXACTLY !!

I really don't see why people are so ashamed to say that some place is too expensive for them.

no bitch deserve that you max out your credit card for her.

hell when I met my girlfriend, for the first few months I was poor as hell and we didn't do any shit that costed money.

sucks but if she stays when you can't offer her a princess life, she deserve to be treated as such later when you have the money to do it IMO

[booty]

EXACTLY !!

I really don't see why people are so ashamed to say that some place is too expensive for them.

no bitch deserve that you max out your credit card for her.

hell when I met my girlfriend, for the first few months I was poor as hell and we didn't do any shit that costed money.

sucks but if she stays when you can't offer her a princess life, she deserve to be treated as such later when you have the money to do it IMO

Well said Stavios.  I agree 100%.  Getting to know each other doesn't require fancy expensive dates.  You can get to know someone with a walk on the beach even. 

[aesthetics]

Well said Stavios.  I agree 100%.  Getting to know each other doesn't require fancy expensive dates.  You can get to know someone with a walk on the beach even. 

that's really what dating and relationships should be about: forming a bond of intimacy with the other person.

but in america, people's minds have been warped and are extremely perverse, they view other people as merely an object for their own satisfaction. 

[booty]

that's really what dating and relationships should be about: forming a bond of intimacy with the other person.

but in america, people's minds have been warped and are extremely perverse, they view other people as merely an object for their own satisfaction. 

Exactly.  I was with one guy for 18 months before we even spent any money doing anything.  We would go to gym together, go to the beach...he would cook me dinner and watch a movie at home.  Our first night spending money was for my 21st birthday where he bought me a seafood platter for two and it was a family night. 

[chaos]

Exactly.  I was with one guy for 18 months before we even spent any money doing anything.  We would go to gym together, go to the beach...he would cook me dinner and watch a movie at home.  Our first night spending money was for my 21st birthday where he bought me a seafood platter for two and it was a family night. 

I'm sure Will can appreciate how cheap you are, he'll need the extra dough for gh to take it to the next level.

[225for70]

Great dating advice's from the Lads here on getbig..