sounds like shes gonna be a real pain in the ass honestly.
I tend to agree, but the best thing to do is change the parameters of the date. Meet her for Starbucks or whatever jacked-up coffee house is cool in your area instead. If she digs you after paying for coffee -- i.e., hugs and initiates kissing -- then there ya go. Take drinks and dinner from there.
NEVER start things with you paying a potentially expensive bar tab. Most women will use you to get smashed and have a free ride home. Others might intend to give you a piece, but by the time comes, they're so trashed they're puking their guts out and you're looking for the ESC tab. It's a rare few that will reward a fellow with a quality piece of pussy so, in the immortal words of one of my favorite Jews, Mel Brooks, "Why take a chance?"
I know a bunch of you give Suckmymuscle shit for hiring hookers to fuck. I was pretty incredulous when he was talking about buying 3$K girls without it denting his wallet
Just the same, when it comes to fucking, pure and simple, he has the right idea. To tap the best-looking pussy, go to Vegas and fuck a bunch of call girls. In time, it might be cheaper than "relationships" in which you wind up with your balls in a sling and half your earnings going to the "beloved" ex-wife
On the other hand, IF you have game, picking up hot bar trash, and cheap, should be no real problem week after week. Just wait 'til a girl's sufficiently fucked up on her Sex on the Beaches, THEN step in. Her skanky friend or wannabe boyfriend might try and object, but brush them off with the simple declaration, "I'm a gentleman. I'd never do X or Y to your friend, even though I'm GOING to do X, Y, Z and everything else to her once we're alone."
In all seriousness, if a date works, it works without you making any real effort. Cliche as it sounds, be yourself, and if you connect with the right girl, you'll at least have your esophagus probed by that gal a few hours later. If she doesn't do that, move on to someone else. Rinse and repeat.
