Embarrassing problem - still suffer from PE - what to do?

[5antasy]

I'm sure there are at least a couple of people on here that can relate.

I'm 28 years old and still suffer from PE. It's pretty fucking embarrassing. The worst part is that I have no problem getting women, and get laid by different ones regularly, but it's the same thing with pretty much all of them, can't last as long as I'd like. Although, every time I've had a relationship, I would last much longer, and have almost full control. It's the new vaj that gets me all the time.

One way to counteract this is to get SMASHED-drunk. If I'm floored, especially off of Vodka, I'm able to keep banging forever. The problem with that, however, besides the obvious health concerns, is that I cannot get fully erect. This makes wearing a condom impossible, and I end up raw-dogging some of these girls.

Another method has been Zoloft. After much research, I've talked to a doctor about PE, and he prescribed me 5mg Zoloft ed. This actually worked. Pretty well too. The problem is that I don't know what kind of long term effects I'm going to experience from prolonged use of SSRIs. Also, I definitely can't drink while on it, and although I don't get waster anymore, I'd like to have a few drinks every now and then.

Not sure what to do. Anyone else have the same problem? What are you doing about it?

[V Man]

What is considered premature by getbig standards anyway?

[el numero uno]

What is considered premature by getbig standards anyway?

Haha good question!

[coltrane]

Your problem lies with watching and beating off to porn.

Think about it.  You pop in a video or click on a link for quick access to something to beat off to.  Your goal is basically to get off as fast as possible.

You've programmed yourself to blow it super fast.

[V Man]

Haha good question!

I'm guessing anything less than a 1/2 hour.

[5antasy]

Your problem lies with watching and beating off to porn.

Think about it.  You pop in a video or click on a link for quick access to something to beat off to.  Your goal is basically to get off as fast as possible.

You've programmed yourself to blow it super fast.

You know, I've read about this before and it definitely makes sense. I do watch plenty of it and I'm always horny, so I beat off once or twice aday, even on days I've had sex. Imagine adding test, it's like 3 or 4 aday.

What should I do? Just quit beating off to porn cold turkey?

What is considered premature by getbig standards anyway?

I'd say any time before you wanted to. 30 mind would be nice, but I'm talking about only a few mins I last--that's low by any standard.

[Voland]

I've had the opposite problem for ever. And it is a problem, believe me.

[doriancutlerman]

I can't say I've had that problem.  

In fact, since I started taking anti-depressants in '99, I've not come inside a woman once.  Come close sometimes and still love sex, but often had to fake orgasms with my favorite two exes such as to not hurt their feelings.

I went off anti-depressants altogether last year, during which time I was single  I wish I could've taken my dick out for a good test drive, but then, I had a huge panic attack and got right back on the shit again :\

Moral of the story:  take Paxil, Pristiq or Effexor XR if you want the opposite of your problem.

[gym**rat]

Just beat off 2-3 times before going out. It should help. If not who cares. As long as you get your nut who cares about the skank your fucking.

[240 is Back]

when you don't get in something wet and tight for a week, you are going to shoot your rocks quickly no matter what.

Find a decent enough looking fck buddy on the pill.  Blow your load in her 3x a week and help her out with the groceries.

Then devote your time and resources to finding a new girl.  You'll be able to jerk off before the date (or plow your Fbuddy), and you won't be all anxious aobut the new tang.  You can even tell her "let's take it slow, babe" at the end of the night and really get her to fall for you.

And once you're with her, start with quickie BJs when you get to the club with your date in your tinted vehicle. &guy her during the movie.  By the time you get to the fcking, it'll be relaxed and you won't have 15 days of "i haven't touched a female" in your head.

[dr.chimps]

Think about baseball.

[doriancutlerman]

You know, I've read about this before and it definitely makes sense. I do watch plenty of it and I'm always horny, so I beat off once or twice aday, even on days I've had sex. Imagine adding test, it's like 3 or 4 aday.

If anything, beating off all of the time should help you last LONGER inside a woman.  I know when I abstained from masturbating for awhile, when I finally had sex again days later or just couldn't resist jacking it, I came fast and it felt many times more intense than usual.

Up the SSRI dose.  Seriously.

[Andy Griffin]

Even in porn, they record the cum shot first.  Don't they??

[Natural Man]

I'm sure there are at least a couple of people on here that can relate.

I'm 28 years old and still suffer from PE. It's pretty fucking embarrassing. The worst part is that I have no problem getting women, and get laid by different ones regularly, but it's the same thing with pretty much all of them, can't last as long as I'd like. Although, every time I've had a relationship, I would last much longer, and have almost full control. It's the new vaj that gets me all the time.

One way to counteract this is to get SMASHED-drunk. If I'm floored, especially off of Vodka, I'm able to keep banging forever. The problem with that, however, besides the obvious health concerns, is that I cannot get fully erect. This makes wearing a condom impossible, and I end up raw-dogging some of these girls.

Another method has been Zoloft. After much research, I've talked to a doctor about PE, and he prescribed me 5mg Zoloft ed. This actually worked. Pretty well too. The problem is that I don't know what kind of long term effects I'm going to experience from prolonged use of SSRIs. Also, I definitely can't drink while on it, and although I don't get waster anymore, I'd like to have a few drinks every now and then.

Not sure what to do. Anyone else have the same problem? What are you doing about it?

go find a house far from the city, cultivate and hunt your food, get a good submisive girl and both read the bible, it will solve all your "mental" , "anxiety" and "erection" problems.

[El Diablo Blanco]

why's this an issue?  Eat the bitch out, sitck in your cock and come and kick her out?  What more do you want?  Fucking pussies letting these medical journals call everying a disease.  Cumming in seconds is not a curse it is a blessing. Gives you more time to lift anf play xbox

[5antasy]

If anything, beating off all of the time should help you last LONGER inside a woman.  I know when I abstained from masturbating for awhile, when I finally had sex again days later or just couldn't resist jacking it, I came fast and it felt many times more intense than usual.

Up the SSRI dose.  Seriously.

That's what I'm thinking man. 5mg of Zoloft worked perfect for me. But of course can't have any drinks and who knows what long term effects are there.

[B_B_C]

relax it can not be that embarrassing if you are able to tell the kind sincere understanding and discrete kidults here and besides Dr UberWoman the renounded psychOnanist will be in soon to sort you out with some deep and meaningful wisdom
 
edit : he got there before this was written

[5antasy]

why's this an issue?  Eat the bitch out, sitck in your cock and come and kick her out?  What more do you want?  Fucking pussies letting these medical journals call everying a disease.  Cumming in seconds is not a curse it is a blessing. Gives you more time to lift anf play xbox

That's been my strategy, but it really lessens your chances of repeat and referral business

[Borracho]

just picture the following guys gangbanging your mom bro:

Borracho, uberman, Loc, Flex 215, 333386, B_B_C, D-Ware, mon_of_steele, Polish Power, Max B, uetone, Andy Griffin, devilsmile, bleed, ving, beverast, old_lifter, chaos, lovemonkey, laija-59, mass243, Voland, FitnessFrenzy, 5antasy, tommywishbone, dbchi123, iabadman2, backday, AnimositisominA, Nomad, manrico82, dr.chimps, cephissus, Rearden Metal, farrellzach, cavalo65, skeela, BFG, GangstaLean, liberty, Benito Mutumbo, doriancutlerman, Harry R. M. Pitts, PG, martellrui, MP, drooks10, Ender1990, jimhopper, NarcissisticDeity, 240 is Back, BayGBM, steveTren, Frito, roadrage, TrueGrit, xpac2, US MUSL, ironxedge, a_pupil, Your Average GymRat, berblexer, V Man, Antithesis, Hulkster, wgtnmuscle1, gym**rat, Big N, Mr Nobody, Treninghard, salt, jaejonna, g.r.o.w.t.h., Dballn247, skillz, makaveli25, Otis B Driftwood, UGMT, Boost, haider, Chubz, grab an umbrella, Dorian01, dirtydog, THEBOSS, mfrank, usmcdevildoc, The_Iron_Disciple, Metabolic, typ, Chick, hazbin, lvtolft, deceiver, nspaletta, chucksm00th, j_mtl, tendonitis, hrspwr, Hugo Chavez, Mr. Magoo, AlphaMaleDawg, Freeborn126, Devon97, DroppingPlates, Archer77, Kwon_2, Beefjake, _bruce_, mwbbuilder, Ron, coltrane, JAM, qbkilla, The Showstoppa, kiwiol, csnut18, johnnynoname, RX MOGOL, mesmorph78, Serenty03, Bgpapi23, littlechris, liquid_c, che, GraniteCityDon, Schnauzer, ricorico, Mike M, Hurricane Beef !, diamondcut, VintageYork, j3di3, Bosch, PeteCZ, jr, growth, King_Raisin, The OC, P.I.P, thepest, nzgs, kyomu, StuartR, fathead, DBX, goomba420, massa, cameo8888, Nails, R.A.M., Zé galinha, onedieselboy, datman, Neptuno, the trainer, rich55, untamedsense, Apfelstrudl, dawakaman, Fischputza, keane, kcballer, undertaker90, cooltech25, Slinpimp, ProgressivAnatomy, maxkane69, SilverSpoon, Game Time, WillRiker, No Patience, Knooger, Rich2, nahb, guts3, Grant_Michaels, misterrut1, jwb, chillchand, gee38, GBLurker, Lord of the Roidz, ironneck, 210 and growing, Brocty, Stavios, Aflo, bigmc, dustin, cyp200la, polychronopolous, dlove, ztinman, Nirvana, powerpack, Growth NOOB, Cashfan, Samourai Pizzacat, Wiggs, hardgainerj, L00n, Butey, Aerian, Hiitsmichael

[Andy Griffin]

Is that true?  I never thought of that!  Actually I don't give a fuck.

I just threw it out there.

Isn't there somebody on the board who is/was a porn star? 

[Borracho]

are you sure it is not his mum but youself you are fantasising about?

that makes no sense

[Natural Man]

That's what I'm thinking man. 5mg of Zoloft worked perfect for me. But of course can't have any drinks and who knows what long term effects are there.

cant you just be happy without any chemical help for fuck sake? whats wrong with people nowadays? Oh yeah, they dont believe in anything anymore. They thought they were limitless powerful gods -raised by single mothers who spoonfed them- and once they hit reality in their 20s they start having "anxiety crisis" ... "I dont get it, i thought i was more than just a human being just like everyone else... I thought life would be all about satysfying my immature impulses forever...Dont tell me we re just creatures suposed to reproduce and work to contribute to our specie indefinitely? ? Where is "hapiness" in all of this?   "

[hrspwr]

this is very important, whatever happens the next time you are about to have sex DO NOT THINK ABOUT DEAD KITTENS.

[apply85]

i dont know wtf u mean whether u come too fast or cant keep hard

the problem is lack of emotional connection with the girl, problem is u think sex = masturbation with pussy. it isnt

[B_B_C]

this is very important, whatever happens the next time you are about to have sex DO NOT THINK ABOUT DEAD KITTENS.

i imagine he wants to fuck the pussy not kill it