Mens 3 Biggest Mistakes

[apply85]

^^^

i love ur wife too, she's a great lady

[BIG ACH]

To add to the sappiness... this scene at the end of '300' always gets to me!

[bigbobs]

I think if any female is willing to by-pass Big Ach's looks and marry him...you know she's a keeper!


(j/k bud )

[da_vinci]

I see my friend.. Fella fell into that trap very early.. being like 20yo (because of a kid). Fast forward.. 33. Bb'ing goals - almost failed.. Started going "off the hook" lately (crazy parties...getting drunk seriously, etc..)... I predict some bad shit is going to happen (I hope I'm wrong). Dude just've got fed up with all the "relathionships" nonsense.. but is quite "introverted" when it comes to females and "limited" in space and time due to various "Musts" and "Do's" so can't really find at least a "get away" bitch or something. Life's just crushing him from above, and he's a really good/responsible dude, but there's always a limit to how much one can take. And once the wheel is "spinning", it may be difficult to slow it down.

I have good examples too.. very very few, but really nice long term couples (or so it SEEMS). But these are rare. Requires goot luck and good choice (of a partner). I kind of admire and respect them for keeping it up. Sadly it's a rarity these days..

Most people do all that "life scenario" out of inertion and FEAR, btw. Not because they really WANT it. Many just doesn't have the courage needed to do what they really WANT.. but even worse - most doesn't really know what they want, huh (so they "borrow" the "patterns of life" that are amongst "Most popular" in society. Depending on society they live in, of course..)... A lot more "auto-pilote" mode than one would think

[BIG ACH]

I think if any female is willing to by-pass Big Ach's looks and marry him...you know she's a keeper!


(j/k bud )

Thats how you know she can look past my massive bulging biceps and deep into my loving heart...

ATTENTION WHORING TIME!!!!!!!!

[da_vinci]

A lot of folks here who got stung by women :-)


Speaking from the other perspective, I've been married for almost six years (got married at 23)  and I've known my wife since I was in 8th grade.... so, a long ass time... we know each other inside out...

I can without a doubt say, marrying her was the best decision I've ever made in my life, we compliment each other really well, and we are both still madly in love with each other - I don't mean to make this sound like a sappy cliche but its the truth and the essence of our happiness.

Marriage is not for everyone, some of my best friends are single and never plan on getting married and hey, if that makes them happy then good for them, I support their decision lol and I'm not one of those annoying guys who tries to convince them to settle down, to each their own.... but for me, I'd be lost without my wife.

Nice to read smth like this. You're still very young and I wish you'll be able to say the same after 10more years. But really - that's nice. If you feel "love" (whatever that means) after these years - future is probably bright for both of you.

[Metabolic]

A lot of folks here who got stung by women :-)


Speaking from the other perspective, I've been married for almost six years (got married at 23)  and I've known my wife since I was in 8th grade.... so, a long ass time... we know each other inside out...

I can without a doubt say, marrying her was the best decision I've ever made in my life, we compliment each other really well, and we are both still madly in love with each other - I don't mean to make this sound like a sappy cliche but its the truth and the essence of our happiness.

Marriage is not for everyone, some of my best friends are single and never plan on getting married and hey, if that makes them happy then good for them, I support their decision lol and I'm not one of those annoying guys who tries to convince them to settle down, to each their own.... but for me, I'd be lost without my wife.

The interesting thing is, all couples think this, and almost all couples fail, not saying yours will, but everybody seems to think they are special.

[makaveli25]

Relationships are okay until you move in with the bitch. When I moved in with mine everything changed. No more fun sex, she stopped dressing nice (wore the same gd sweat pants around the house all the time. I stayed in great shape the whole time and she never really tried to do the same. Plus you have to listen to them gossip on the damn phone all day. She would skype with her parents all the time! Was so annoying her mom tried to skype with me several times felt like she was spying on me when I was trying to surf getbig in peace. What a slob she was to! Bathroom looked a damn crack den!

[BIG ACH]

The interesting thing is, all couples think this, and almost all couples fail, not saying yours will, but everybody seems to think they are special.

I know what you're saying - I've met a lot of couples who were like "oh we are sooooo in love"

then I get a call "yeah we're splitting up"


You never really know, so you're taking a big risk I guess!

[dr.chimps]

Thats how you know she can look past my massive bulging biceps and deep into my loving heart...

ATTENTION WHORING TIME!!!!!!!!

Whore away, bro. I'm gonna shop that flag out before I send this pic to Homeland. Just sayin.'      

[BIG ACH]

Whore away, bro. I'm gonna shop that flag out before I send this pic to Homeland. Just sayin.'      

LOLLL should I be expecting a visit... "Sir, you better come with us" next thing I know...

[dr.chimps]

LOLLL should I be expecting a visit... "Sir, you better come with us" next thing I know...

You laugh, now. But there's no Domino's in Gitmo.       

[BayGBM]

1) Getting a girl friend

2) Getting married

3) Having children


Number one is where it all starts, your single happy, you don't need no bitch, your big ripped, got money to hand, nothings stopping you until one day you convince yourself you getting older, or your lonely, yes we all fucking do it, God knows why but we do... then you meet this girl, you can't stop thinking about her, she is flawless, your pain eases, you feel fucking great, all in love and shit, training becomes less important, infact you love her that much and you future seems soo clear you even come off the gear because you don't need it anymore... Oh yeah we all been there!
The cracks then start to show but you ignore them at first, these are just teething problems, you need to give it more time...before you know it those cracks have turned into a huge fucking hole and you go back on the gear and think WTF did I get into her for, her friend is well fitter.. After all she has got relaxed around you, so fucking relaxed you starting to ask yourself was I really that blinded when I first met her? Naah she can't of looked like this I would of never got with her..
Two and three just go hand in hand, you end up with one and the other follows as it is the right thing to do. Before you know it you got a "partner" you don't care for that much but don't really know what else to do and the kids just complicate the whole fucking issue more!

Adultry is a sin and I do not advise it but Jesus women are fucking hard work..

Im going to go get in my tardis and go back to a time when life was simpler...

Gay.

[Fortress]

... everybody seems to think they (the couple)) are special.

No shit. Everyone thinks it'll be different for them. No matter how hot your chick is, after sinking your meat into the same vag for 30 years, you'll be just about mad with desire to smash ANY other pussy. Even if it's disease-ridden and ugly as hell and is owned by a fat and stinky whore. And let's not even talk about the disaster that is the living together dealio. Pure suicide.

Some want children; most men who want children want them so their name will "live on" (really, who gives a shit? Your precious name will die soon enough, no matter how many kids you produce) and so they have someone to look after them when they're decomposing later in life. Other than this, guys, what's the benefit of children? They make noise, wreck your homestead, take all your dough, piss you off, pose for ratty online porn sites, smash your vehicle ... horrible.

Relationships are deep, deep trouble for most men. Sure, some relationships go the distance, and some go the distance and the two still love each other, but the OVERWHELMING majority of them cause heartache, misery, arrest records, prison sentences, drained bank accounts, etc.

Fuck it.     

[Metabolic]

No shit. Everyone thinks it'll be different for them. No matter how hot your chick is, after sinking your meat into the same vag for 30 years, you'll be just about mad with desire to smash ANY other pussy. Even if it's disease-ridden and ugly as hell and is owned by a fat and stinky whore. And let's not even talk about the disaster that is the living together dealio. Pure suicide.

Some want children; most men who want children want them so their name will "live on" (really, who gives a shit? Your precious name will die soon enough, no matter how many kids you produce) and so they have someone to look after them when they're decomposing later in life. Other than this, guys, what's the benefit of children? They make noise, wreck your homestead, take all your dough, piss you off, pose for ratty online porn sites, smash your vehicle ... horrible.

Relationships are deep, deep trouble for most men. Sure, some relationships go the distance, and some go the distance and the two still love each other, but the OVERWHELMING majority of them cause heartache, misery, arrest records, prison sentences, drained bank accounts, etc.

Fuck it.     

I like your style.

[io856]

I like this post

[Cutlet767]

^^^

i love ur wife too, she's a great lady

She really is.

[BIG ACH]

She really is.

Fuck all y'all 

[reppingfor20]

we need more educated people, this will help with many problems including the one you have stated.  You are raised in a society that tells you this is how you are suppose to live, so to go against what you were raised to believe what life is, it feels like your are an outcast at first, and society wants it that way, once your married and have kids, you are in debt, have a mortgage, car payments, kids to buy more stuff at the grocery store and mall for.  It is all about money, if all people thought about relationships like you, there wouldn't be as much money being spent and the top 1% wouldn't be as rich.

[Rhino]

anyone here get a vasectomy? will they give it to you if you have no kids? and how much$$$???

[BIG ACH]

anyone here get a vasectomy? will they give it to you if you have no kids? and how much$$$???

You don't need to have kids to get it, a buddy of mine got it and never looked back, not sure on the price though!

[PJim]

Thats how you know she can look past my massive bulging biceps and deep into my loving heart...

ATTENTION WHORING TIME!!!!!!!!

You have more tape measures than Vince Basile.

[Voice of Doom]

[chaos]

Lots of sensitive guys in this thread jacking off cause they can't get laid.

[Rhino]

You don't need to have kids to get it, a buddy of mine got it and never looked back, not sure on the price though!

thanks man. i will tell them get big sent me. i think i am going to cry now =‘) i love this thread.