I went out with a nice girl last night. She's a nurse very cute has a nice family etc. This is our second date. We go to a restraunt and have a really nice dinner and a few drinks, then we went to a bar that had a real good live band playing. End of the night roles around she wants me to spend the night but tells me "we are not having sex" "I want to wait few more weeks" bla bla bla. I know right away it's on as soon as we get back to her place. We ended up having sex right on the floor as soon as we walked in. Woke up this morning had sex again. No I'm just feeling kind of mehhhhh about her.
I loled, good one, nice job man just enjoy it... you never know maybe she is the one.
First sex - then relationships it's always like that... girls from work/social activities/sports teamates same thing it's just takes longer, you have to play with them sorta teas them a little, they will test you and it's beautiful. First you talk... she comes by more often, asks not that important/funny questions just to talk to you, hangs out near your desk/office, stops by her "girlfriend/coworker" often which is nearby your desk/office, makes lots of noise to attract your attention, glances at you and can't hold your straight eye contact even for a 3 seconds...
And then it starts... Her: "what are you doing for lunch?" so Lunch together (obviously she brings her best friend or friends to not disclose her feelings for you, but you see it all)... Little touches here and there, a touch to your arm then shoulder, then hair, stomach... etc
Lots of flirting, laughs, jokes, then nastier jokes... it's all great great love trip and then few more weeks/months pass by and she has your phone # god knows how... (she will make it look like she really needs your phone # lol so you wouldn't even suspect)
Then sms on the weekends, about some stupid not important stuff obviously sorta work related
i.e. (heyyyy me and Jenny are bringing luch tomorrow!!!! you should cook and bring some too, we can share!! lol!) and so on, and so on...
Then she joins your gym... she works out... comes over very often touches you even more... you workout together, fight a little (playfully) she chekcs your arms, abs, you slap her ass a little etc etc
But then one day you just boom smack her down in the gym corridor or elevator after work or somewhere when it's just the right moment when she opens up for you, you just feel it and see it - that this is the right moment - you press her to the wall you lean forward slowly not to scare her down and stay at abut one inch from her lips but not kissing her... and she gives up like a flower opens up for a sun, she kisses you hot french kiss for 5 minutes that's when she starts grabbing you all over getting hot and out of control, she is cooked and you are cooked too haha what a great feeling, it's amazing and that is beautiful
So what I'm trying to say here is that there are different dates and yes, those one night stands also can grow into something bigger, but true love grow slowly
but what do I know...