some guys prefer get off from the illusion a woman "wants them" and that they would never pay for sex
reality is different but keep courting those trash women in bars if that floats your boat
You know, there are women that are out there that actually like your company, like you, and the way you make them feel...
That being said, where the hell are they?

them hookers got your mind twisted. As been stated before, we ALL pay in some way. Whether it be the time "spent" in getting with that person, or money "spent" on dinners, trips to the museum, outings, cruises, vacations, etc.
the fact that you are with a African who was a former hooker who is 6 yrs older than you, and lied about it, speaks volumes about the women you deal with. And how she sees you. Both of prolly have unhealthy views about one another---you are just a John to her, a stepping stone...and she is nothng more than a hooker, that is providing a girlfriend experience...
I'd say that both of you need to see shrinks, as you both prolly have some chldhood issues dealing with the opposite sex.
That being said, listen to Old Skool Wes.