As I've said before, no one pumps up to that size to get attention from women; you do it to get attention from men!
Off course you would wish to think that, homosexual bottom pervert,but it isn't.
I got interested in lifting weights for example when I was a kid because I saw some huge local mobsters with big forearms and they were beating people and shooting their guns all the time then.
Getting huge is to intimidate other men,not to attract them.
Weights lifting and being massive is not gay.
Bodybuilding in glittery thongs possibly could be on the other hand.
Don't project your fudgepacking interests on the rest of us.