Author Topic: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth... (Read 7074 times)

Ontheway · « **on:** March 12, 2012, 02:00:13 PM »

OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them...

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?

el numero uno · « **Reply #1 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:02:48 PM »

Any nude pics of her?

The Grim Lifter · « **Reply #2 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:03:49 PM »

She's keeping in touch in case things with you go south

So you should flirt with women in front of her too and make her work for your attention

NeilGM · « **Reply #3 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:06:10 PM »

Quote from: Ontheway on March 12, 2012, 02:00:13 PM

OK I need honest, and upfront answers regarding this:

My girlfriend has continued to have contact with her ex behind my back. Mails, FB chats, phone calls, small coffees, etc. Without me knowing about it or she ever thinking of maybe telling me...

Somehow in an argument this guy´s name came up. I ask her: "who the hell is he..." She tells me several times: "it is a friend, nothing to worry about..." I feel something is wrong and I keep pushing, and after a while she tells me, "well that guy is my ex, but he is just a friend nothing to worry about..."

I asked her if at any point the last months she ever felt the need to tell me she is still seeing him... She tells me: "you never asked about him... and I did nothing that would upset or hurt you..."

But at the same time she did asks me several times about all the women around me... But hey, she just asked me if they ever meant anything to me... But she never asked me if I had sex with them...

Please elaborate... WTF should I do? Who is right?

I would leave her, sound immature

El Diablo Blanco · « **Reply #4 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:07:16 PM »

You need to give her unlubed primal anal sex right now to show her you are the dominant one and to never keep secrets from you. If you have dildo in the house, DP her while analy massacaring her for total submission to you.

apply85 · « **Reply #5 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:07:51 PM »

hmmm... so u r a cuckold

whatever woman u choose will treatu the same, i would just dive head first and ask if u can lick his come out her pussy next time she fucks him

Ontheway · « **Reply #6 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:09:47 PM »

I just mailed the link to this post to her, cause she did nothing wrong... So she is reading this...

dr.chimps · « **Reply #7 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:11:41 PM »

What the fark is with all these relationship questions!? This isn't Dear Abby.

Ontheway · « **Reply #8 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:12:53 PM »

This or roid rage on them both... but i would rather skip publicity...

mr.turbo · « **Reply #9 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:14:04 PM »

probably nothing to worry about. just make sure you're getting some on the side too and it's even steven

Agnostic007 · « **Reply #10 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:21:08 PM »

1. Women love it when you ask questions like this on a forum and then mail the link to them

2. Hard to say.. it could be innocent and she didn't believe you would believe her (trust issue)

It could be she is having an affair of sorts with the ex because he supplies her with something you don't... conversation, understanding...orgasms. .who knows..

Personally, I couldn't trust her at this point and it would make for a rough relationship going forward. Even if she says she cut it off, you'll never really know..

AlphaM · « **Reply #11 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:22:39 PM »

Quote from: mon_of_steele on March 12, 2012, 02:07:16 PM

You need to give her unlubed primal anal sex right now to show her you are the dominant one and to never keep secrets from you. If you have dildo in the house, DP her while analy massacaring her for total submission to you.

This.

Also, after you do this you should smoke a sig at her house while she's still trying to come back out of the orgazms in her bed, then dress up say "I'll call you" and leave. Obviously, you never call her ... She will contact you but this time expect her to have some anal lube with her

so the story can be repeated with more pleasure..

Lots of betas here... Guys you need learn lots of things... And learning comes from experience and the harder the experience the better man you will end up

don't forget who you are - you are a MAN. The moment you act like a pussy (which you did) she will start looking around in search of stronger more stable male - its nature so be strong and know how to read woman

V Man · « **Reply #12 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:25:51 PM »

OJ Simpson once had a problem similar to this....can't remember what his solution was though. $:-\$

El Diablo Blanco · « **Reply #13 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:27:36 PM »

Quote from: V Man on March 12, 2012, 02:25:51 PM

OJ Simpson once had a problem similar to this....can't remember what his solution was though. $:-\$

Bought two Columbian Neck Ties. Designer ones I think.

dustin · « **Reply #14 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:29:42 PM »

You know the drill. We need a full glute spread to be able to help.

In all seriousness though, that's not good at all. Maybe a Facebook message to say "hey, hope you're doing good". But I find that texting and talking on the phone is much too personal. She's cheating physically and/or emotionally. Drop her before you get all attached and become a sobbing vagina, begging for her love when she's actually banging him and making you meltdown.

I've seen it all too many times before. If she's a good poke, keep her around and treat her like shit. Treat a girl like shit and she'll stick to you like mud. Just don't make any emotional investments. She needs to be dead to you, otherwise YOU will be the one that'll get hurt. She's got someone on the side and you're left to wallow in emotional agony... fuck that! Take care of yourself, bro!

tu_holmes · « **Reply #15 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:39:24 PM »

She is going to be fucking him soon if not already.

Hope This Helps.

Schmoff · « **Reply #16 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:40:31 PM »

sorry, bro, your dick is not satisfying her, move on, get rid of her

Ontheway · « **Reply #17 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:41:12 PM »

At this point I offer a naked picture of her to the person giving me the best answer... No head full body... full spread...

So go for it...

mr.turbo · « **Reply #18 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:49:18 PM »

real talk, this is very shady behavior

no trust=no "relationship"

understand what you're dealing with and never respect a sneaky bitch

Overload · « **Reply #19 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:50:12 PM »

You came to the best place for this kind of advice.

Dump the skank and move on.

She's obviously cheating on you.

Thank me in 3 months when you "find out she's cheating but didn't think it would happen to you".

Ontheway · « **Reply #20 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:53:53 PM »

Quote from: mr.turbo on March 12, 2012, 02:49:18 PM

real talk, this is very shady behavior

no trust=no "relationship"

understand what you're dealing with and never respect a sneaky bitch

Exactly my point, if we keep it serious... But hey she said she loves me, and she never did anything that would hurt me... Why not telling me than?

OH I JUST WOULD LOVE TO SEE HER FACE WHILE READING THESE...

V Man · « **Reply #21 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:55:04 PM »

Just tell her that you don't feel comfortable with her spending time with someone she has had an intimate relationship in the past, and that if the tables were turned she would feel the same way. If she cannot respect that then tell her you are going to move on.

Rearden Metal · « **Reply #22 on:** March 12, 2012, 02:58:08 PM »

Do what I do. Contact the guy and tell him this one he doesn't get to play with without dancing with me too.

makaveli25 · « **Reply #23 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:01:35 PM »

Kill them both

dustin · « **Reply #24 on:** March 12, 2012, 03:02:36 PM »

Quote from: Rearden Metal on March 12, 2012, 02:58:08 PM

Do what I do. Contact the guy and tell him this one he doesn't get to play with without dancing with me too.

Do this, but send a picture of your cock too for good measure.

Author Topic: POLL: I am having an argument with my girl about telling the truth... (Read 7074 times)

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