LOL @ the image of a bodybuilder riding up to a coffee shop on a hipster bike and in thrift store clothes
i think if a meathead tried to dress and act the part outside of being intelligent, well spoken, open minded and progressive he would be seen as trying way too hard and a "faker".
i fit in very well with my gf's friends, all of whom are "hipsters", attend a private university, studying anthropology and international relations, etc. the girls are always feeling my muscles, giving me hugs, and dancing with me whenever they can.