Hey all of us know its not easy. We love weightlifting, bodybuilding, martial arts. But we also love women. We get "caught" lol, by Miss Right and that's all she wrote. We take a vow before God, which some of us take very seriously. The children start coming and now our life is no longer our own. The kids need to fed, clothed, nurtured, brought up right. I think we've all seen the results when the "man of the house" wimps out and leaves the family. Not pretty. A dad can't be a dad from another address. So we have to make sacrifices. We give up our nights out with the boys. We come home after work, and we're in for the night. A responsible dad doesn't run off to the gym. No way. He supervises the kids homework, listens to problems, helps wifey clean the kitchen. He's lucky to get twenty minutes of pumping iron on the weight bench in the basement. Steroids? Forget about it. What kind of example for the children is that setting? Imagine the squad car pulling into the driveway to arrest Daddy? Unthinkable.
