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« Reply #50 on: March 28, 2012, 10:27:50 AM »
Go to many of the popular hotel clubs, you will see AMAZING hot asian broads.  Fucking skin on these girls is like smooth silk.  My stomach hurts from just thinking about it.

Sure sure, but have you seen any one voluptuos, curvy etc?

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« Reply #51 on: March 28, 2012, 01:26:09 PM »
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You drunk Irish bitch.  That's like going to HELP in the past and saying you banged regular girls. 

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« Reply #52 on: March 28, 2012, 02:34:53 PM »
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« Reply #53 on: March 28, 2012, 04:40:39 PM »
Don't know how I missed this post.  My wife, btw, is 18 years younger.   hahahaha   Life is good.


The odds she s going to leave for a younger guy are:

 101%.

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« Reply #54 on: March 28, 2012, 10:01:32 PM »
None of you guys know the best way to meet regular girls.  And, it's easier than wasting time by going to clubs or hanging out at the mall.  How then?

Thailovelinks.com.  It's how I met my wife. 

Great thing about Thailand (if you're a guy) is that there are a about a kajillion great looking, university-educated girls with good jobs (for Thailand anyway) between the ages of 24 and 35 who have no suitable men for them.  Why?   Because Thailand has a history of polygamy.  A successful guy doesn't want to settle down with just one woman from his same social stratum -- He'd rather have 20 jaw-droppingly beautiful rice farmers' daughters.   It's the truth.

My Story: 3 years ago I was an OK-looking 45 year old guy with a decent tech job (about 80K/year) who, after being divorced for a year, decided to go to Thailand to have some much-needed fun.  I'd been there twice before with the ex, but this time I wasn't gonna bring sand to the beach.  While researching what to do and where to go, I ran across a forum posting that I thought was probably bullshit;  Some 50-year old guy told tall-sounding tales about how he'd used thailovelinks.com to set up a lunch date with a different decent woman (dentists, accountants, real estate saleswomen, etc.) for every day of his vacation.  His plan was that if there was a "love connection" during the lunch date, then they could make plans for later.  And if the lunch date fizzled, then he could always fall back on the bargirls.  OK, even though I thought this guy was exaggerating about the quality of women who wanted to meet him for lunch, I thought this was an excellent plan.  So I put my profile up on the thailovelinks and lo and behold, 331 women contacted me in the 15 days that my pic was up on that site.  It was pretty fucking unbelievable.  I would receive an email on my smartphone whenever a woman would send me interest and I had to turn off the ringer.  I quickly began chatting (first via the website's IM client and then on MSN Live if I really liked the girl) with about 10 different girls.  (I don't speak Thai so I quickly limited myself to the girls who rated their english as "good" -- which is a damn shame because some of the girls whose english wasn't so good looked like freakin' supermodels.)  What made me take my profile down was that I met the woman who is now my wife.  for me, her personality was head and shoulders above all the rest and we shared a lot of the same values and even life experiences (believe it or not).  After talking to her via Skype (virtually unlimited calls to mobile phones and landlines in Thailand for about $6-/month) nonstop for 2 weeks, I changed my plans and deactivated my Thaillovelinks.com profile.  And 2 months later, I went to Thailand for 3 weeks and spent every minute with her.  And we are very happily married (and back in the USA).  None of this is bullshit.  If anyone has questions, PM me.

Most Thai dating sites are full of hookers.

You do not need the internet to meet women in Thailand or anywhere else.

You just have to be aware that there's hookers all over the place....

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« Reply #55 on: March 28, 2012, 10:07:00 PM »
I can write you 20 pages of how fucking awesome that place is.  But BIG hint.  Befriend the bell boys at the hotel.  In my first 5 minutes after checking in he had sent me a smoking how whore, who showered with me, made me cum, clean me up, tucked me in and left for about $20.  After that he hooked me up with a driver that took me everywhere, paid the guy $100 for the week of being my personal driver.  I fucked so many whores it was crazy.

Go to many of the popular hotel clubs, you will see AMAZING hot asian broads.  Fucking skin on these girls is like smooth silk.  My stomach hurts from just thinking about it.

Are you seriously saying that in Thailand, you actually paid someone to find you a prostitute?

And that you got a smoking how whore for 600 Baht, which includes the money she'd have to pay the Bell boy as his cut?

Look - I hate to burst bubbles here but if you expect to have sex with anything other than an HIV infested crack whore, you need to up the ante a bit....

It is cheap - but it's not that cheap. You are not going to be sleeping with supermodels for a five dorra....

It's a myth

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« Reply #56 on: March 28, 2012, 11:54:13 PM »
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You drunk Irish bitch.  That's like going to HELP in the past and saying you banged regular girls. 

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« Reply #57 on: March 28, 2012, 11:57:00 PM »
had sex with 20 women in 3 weeks sometime 3 ata time

all just gave them cab money following day maybe shared lil brekfast buffette sicne they all slept over and took it again in morning

all 18 with nice shaved pussies

all 90 pounds thought they fat too

wow

took me upon returning to usa 3 months to not ask girl at bar to come right home with me

got 3 nice 1 ngiht stands in that period

when u jsut ask womens tr8 up to come home and be calm wow

1 night stands galore but 8 of 10 women here want date or dinner etc and I just am liek why

im not hungery

if i was id go eat

lol

yes for the ugly brown perv all had shaved vagian not cock

kinda pussy ugly brown guy cant get near

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« Reply #58 on: March 29, 2012, 12:47:34 AM »
LMAO at you getbig fags thinking there's a gadzillion hot girls in Thailand. Talk about low standards. I've traveled to all over Asia 2 months out of the year for the past 2 decades (I worked for Ebay). Been to Thailand more times than I can remember. Negro please the girls there are about the ugliest among all asian girls. Go to Saigon and see what hot asian women look like. Ten times better looking without the annoying cheap whore behavior. But beware most of those vietnamese bitches you see at the saigon nightclub have more money than you and WILL spend more money than you so don't walk around acting like you're the shit. They will laugh at you if you try to throw cash at them whether you're black asian white or whatever the fuck weird azz skin tone you are. Once you figure your way around saigon and how to land bitches there, you'll never come back to Thai whores.

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« Reply #59 on: March 29, 2012, 01:02:18 AM »
had sex with 20 women in 3 weeks sometime 3 ata time

all just gave them cab money following day maybe shared lil brekfast buffette sicne they all slept over and took it again in morning

all 18 with nice shaved pussies

all 90 pounds thought they fat too

wow

took me upon returning to usa 3 months to not ask girl at bar to come right home with me

got 3 nice 1 ngiht stands in that period

when u jsut ask womens tr8 up to come home and be calm wow

1 night stands galore but 8 of 10 women here want date or dinner etc and I just am liek why

im not hungery

if i was id go eat

lol

yes for the ugly brown perv all had shaved vagian not cock

kinda pussy ugly brown guy cant get near

LOL!

Another pussy slayer that went to Thailand and had all the hookers sleeping with him for free  ::)

Just FYI - 90% of the Ho's in Pattaya have a live-in Thai boyfriend or husband.

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« Reply #60 on: March 29, 2012, 01:11:20 AM »
Sure sure, but have you seen any one voluptuos, curvy etc?

Only the ladyboys...

Thailand is for men that like skinny women. Women that have the body of a 12 year old boy.

If you want a bit more meat on your bone, you need to look elsewhere or get a chick with a dick.

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« Reply #61 on: March 29, 2012, 01:35:14 AM »
A lot of creepy fuckings guys in this thread. Too bad you lot cannot pull a Western girl and have to crawl to the 3rd world and PAY a 3rd world whore to have sex with you.
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« Reply #62 on: March 29, 2012, 01:55:56 AM »
A lot of creepy fuckings guys in this thread. Too bad you lot cannot pull a Western girl and have to crawl to the 3rd world and PAY a 3rd world whore to have sex with you.

The rationalization is usually something like this:

1 - You pay for it in the West anyway, it's just more direct in Thailand
2 - Thai women are more subservient, treat you like a king (mostly bollocks)
3 - You don't pay for the sex, you pay for them to leave afterwards
4 - Western women are Feminazi's

etc. etc. etc.

I remember my first day here - 15 years ago. I didn't even know where Thailand was on the map, I just got sent here.

I remember bumping into some ageing sexpat who was telling me how his Thai wife didn't mind him fucking around with whores just as long as he didn't take one home.

Obviously - you are thinking now the same thing I thought on my first day here - "total fucking nonsense" - ain't no woman on the earth who doesn't mind a man she loves fucking other women.

There's a lot of self-justification going around. Goes with the territory.

Fact is, sexpats want to fuck 18 year old (and younger) girls. Young girls want to find a sponsor to build a house back in the village and buy them a car. Fact that these girls are married never enters a sexpats head.

Any Thai woman actively seeking a foreigner - ESPECIALLY those women on ThaiLoveLinks.com are not looking for a partner, they are looking for an income.  Sure - you can hook up with them and fuck them but they are not very far removed from the ho's in the bars. It's just that the sexpats want to think they are a cut above because they didn't find the gal shooting ping-pong balls across a stage.

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« Reply #63 on: March 29, 2012, 03:43:10 AM »
100%! I can see you ahv been there for a long time and know all the angles.

Girls just want a fucking salary every month, you know the ol 10-15k a months just to keep off the streets and keep her in the house with her friends where she is waiting there alone for you to come in the next 8 months.

I love my boyfriend, they all say...while sucking down on my cock!

All money and interest indeed. Guys want cheap and serviant whores (younger the better) and girls want to get the fuck out of the shitholes most of them live in. 98% of Normal Thai girls (plenty of them) do not mix with foreigners. Why would they.

Because they arn't hot enough for Farrangs to give a fuck

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« Reply #64 on: March 31, 2012, 09:48:58 AM »
Haha yeah I love that site too, been on 3 dates with lady´s from that site. The first ended up just being a dinner and a fuck. The second was a night out and we ended up in my hotel, but she was not a lady that had sex the first night, but she did drive me to the airport the day after :-)
The third was the most amazing lady I have ever been with, from the moment we meet, where just perfect together, actually so attracted to each other that we ended up in my hotel room 2.5 hours after we meet and the first kiss led to sex, we ended up spending the whole holiday together, but as good as we where together just as much did we suck at being apart, so it only lasted 2 month :-(

Then I have a bunch of lady´s from that site that I just consider friends, always nice when I travel alone that I can meet with some of them just for company. Especially when you travel a lot in Thailand, you get bored with the bar lady´s pretty quick, so I prefer to hang out with the "normal" lady´s. 

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« Reply #65 on: March 31, 2012, 10:28:52 AM »
The odds she s going to leave for a younger guy are:

 101%.

Tell yourself that if it makes you feel better but it's not at all true. 

I'm gonna treat your comment as if it were serious:  Look, although you can never predict the future with 100% accuracy (much less 101%, haha) I can tell you that I did my homework and married a very intelligent, university-educated (only one among her 9 siblings who can say that) woman who is NOT from Isaan.  She comes from a country family (no electricity until she was 15) in South Thailand (Nakhon sri thammarat) and, like many women from there,  she has character and self-respect. Very few bargirls come from the southern provinces.  I did not marry some vapid supermodel shop-a-holic.  She's been married before, too, so she is not only intelligent but has some life experiences that have resulted in her having realistic expectations of what a good relationship is all about.  Not sure if I mentioned this earlier, but I spoke to her for 2 -6 hours per day (like it was my freakin' job -- I got no sleep) almost every day for about 4 months before even meeting her.  And today I can say that we KNOW EACH OTHER much, much better than was my experience with my 2 prior wives (5-years with one, 14 years with the other).  There are so many things that she's told me that illustrate her character. Here's one:  I used to be like a lot of people and had the idea that Thai bargirls, because so many send money home to their families (in stark contrast to most sex workers in the USA), were kind of noble and were just trying to make the best of their bad "hand" in life.  When I told my wife this, she sneered and said simply, "Those girls are lazy".  Bwahaha. She's not at all your typical Thai. 

So, for the reasons above, I don't think she's just gonna turn around and leave me for a younger guy.  Ever. Why would she?  I make her laugh, I make decent money, I'm loyal (which counts for a WHOLE LOT considering her prior marriage broke up because her husband wouldn't stop whoring while they lived in Thailand) and I don't look like your run-of-the-mill 47-year old.  As an ex-bodybuilder (qualified for NPC nationals in '99), I've pretty much transformed my body in the last year (I'm now a blast & cruiser who uses GH) and am doing all I can to stay youthful.   Oh yeah, we're also planning on having a baby next year, too.

So, now that you know all that, what would you say the percentage is now, Nostradamus?


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« Reply #66 on: March 31, 2012, 10:42:19 AM »
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« Reply #67 on: March 31, 2012, 10:46:21 AM »
LMAO at you getbig fags thinking there's a gadzillion hot girls in Thailand. Talk about low standards. I've traveled to all over Asia 2 months out of the year for the past 2 decades (I worked for Ebay). Been to Thailand more times than I can remember. Negro please the girls there are about the ugliest among all asian girls. Go to Saigon and see what hot asian women look like. Ten times better looking without the annoying cheap whore behavior. But beware most of those vietnamese bitches you see at the saigon nightclub have more money than you and WILL spend more money than you so don't walk around acting like you're the shit. They will laugh at you if you try to throw cash at them whether you're black asian white or whatever the fuck weird azz skin tone you are. Once you figure your way around saigon and how to land bitches there, you'll never come back to Thai whores.

Errr. WTF?  I'm pretty sure that the guys here are comparing the girls to the ones they can get in their home countries.  I'm currently living in NC and based on bodyweight alone, your average Thai girl has it all over the girls here.  You are right about one thing; The nightclubs ARE filled with prostitutes-----which is why, if you want a quality girl, you don't look there.  And say all you want about the well-worn prostitutes (that you've probably mostly come across in BKK), but have you ever ridden the BTS skytrain at commute hour and seen all the regular office girls and uni students?  It'll take your breath away.  I think it's straight misleading for you to give guys here the idea that Thai girls aren't good looking.

And Viet girls do look OK (about the same as Thai girls except even thinner and smaller) but surely you know that they have the reputation of being totally cutthroat when it comes to lying to the western guy.  When I was getting a K-1 visa (I'm American) for my Thai fiancee, I frequently used a website called visajourney.com.  That website is replete with sob stories of guys who would bring over viet girls only to find out that they were already married to some vietnamese guy back home who was encouraging her to get a foothold in the western world before bringing him over.  This is so common that the U.S. embassy in Vietnam is known to be the most strict in Southeast Asia when it comes to granting fiancee and spouse visas.   Bottomline, when it comes to girls, is that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  However, it must be said that it's indisputable that Thai food kicks Vietnamese food's ass.  

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« Reply #68 on: March 31, 2012, 10:48:24 AM »
Most Thai dating sites are full of hookers.


This is true.  You do have to weed out the pro's, but it's pretty easy.  They do not want to spend much time with any one person, especially one who isn't already in Thailand or who won't be coming to Thailand very soon.

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« Reply #69 on: March 31, 2012, 10:50:48 AM »
Are you seriously saying that in Thailand, you actually paid someone to find you a prostitute?

And that you got a smoking how whore for 600 Baht, which includes the money she'd have to pay the Bell boy as his cut?

Look - I hate to burst bubbles here but if you expect to have sex with anything other than an HIV infested crack whore, you need to up the ante a bit....

It is cheap - but it's not that cheap. You are not going to be sleeping with supermodels for a five dorra....

It's a myth


Also, I liked most of MOS's post, but $100- for a personal driver for only a week in Thailand?  100 US dollars?  WTF?  That was some charity shit, there. 

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« Reply #70 on: March 31, 2012, 10:58:55 AM »


Just FYI - 90% of the Ho's in Pattaya have a live-in Thai boyfriend or husband.

Source?  Because this is not true.  Most of the girls live together as roommates.  Usually 4 -6 girls to a room.

Even the girls who make a lot of money (by being smart or exceptionally good-looking) often don't have Thai husbands.  But they do have as many foreign sponsors as possible, haha.  Lot easier to make money by having it sent from some lovestruck dope overseas than it is to just make $$ per fuck.  Beware any girl that has more than one cell phone.

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« Reply #71 on: March 31, 2012, 11:05:00 AM »
Only the ladyboys...

Thailand is for men that like skinny women. Women that have the body of a 12 year old boy.

If you want a bit more meat on your bone, you need to look elsewhere or get a chick with a dick.

Mostly true.  Skinny but athletic (as opposed to, say, Chinese girls, many of whom are skinny and weak) IS the perdominat body type.  But you also see that particular type of Isaan girl who has the extremely sturdy peasant/farm-girl body.  They have big legs and big shoulders but are not what you'd call voluptuous.  (They're the ones who have the big face that makes me think, "Damn, I bet she can take a punch.")

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« Reply #72 on: March 31, 2012, 11:12:36 AM »
A lot of creepy fuckings guys in this thread. Too bad you lot cannot pull a Western girl and have to crawl to the 3rd world and PAY a 3rd world whore to have sex with you.

Hmmm. This is a young-guy attitude and I used to feel the same way. 

The alternate take on it is what the old ex-pat's say:  You're not paying the girl to have sex, you're paying her to leave in the morning. 

And, to take your comment more seriously than it deserves, the guys often aren't just paying for sex (cold, mechanical amsterdam-style), but are paying for the Girl Friend Experience.  They get all the benefits of having a loving, caring girl-friend but on a temporary basis so they can waste much less time on the whole thing than guys who are only after freebies.  (And, let's face it, most freebies, when you factor in not only drinks, meals, entertainment but also TIME, are not at all free.)

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« Reply #73 on: March 31, 2012, 11:20:01 AM »
Skinny bitches give pretty good bj's but need a ass.

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« Reply #74 on: March 31, 2012, 11:36:16 AM »
The rationalization is usually something like this:

1 - You pay for it in the West anyway, it's just more direct in Thailand
2 - Thai women are more subservient, treat you like a king (mostly bollocks)
3 - You don't pay for the sex, you pay for them to leave afterwards
4 - Western women are Feminazi's

etc. etc. etc.

I remember my first day here - 15 years ago. I didn't even know where Thailand was on the map, I just got sent here.

I remember bumping into some ageing sexpat who was telling me how his Thai wife didn't mind him fucking around with whores just as long as he didn't take one home.

Obviously - you are thinking now the same thing I thought on my first day here - "total fucking nonsense" - ain't no woman on the earth who doesn't mind a man she loves fucking other women.

There's a lot of self-justification going around. Goes with the territory.

Fact is, sexpats want to fuck 18 year old (and younger) girls. Young girls want to find a sponsor to build a house back in the village and buy them a car. Fact that these girls are married never enters a sexpats head.

Any Thai woman actively seeking a foreigner - ESPECIALLY those women on ThaiLoveLinks.com are not looking for a partner, they are looking for an income.  Sure - you can hook up with them and fuck them but they are not very far removed from the ho's in the bars. It's just that the sexpats want to think they are a cut above because they didn't find the gal shooting ping-pong balls across a stage.

You know some Thai habits but you're either ignorant of their culture or you insist that your world view is the correct one.  Of course a Thai woman looking for a husband is looking for a man to take care of her financially.  What do you think love is to most Thai people?  Love = taking care of that person.  This idea is inculcated in every Thai from the moment they learn to talk.  There's no fucking welfare in Thailand.  If you don't have a job you can starve in the street.  Your family (those you love and who love you) are your safety net.  The basic goal of raising your kid is different in Thailand than it is in the west.  In the west, we try to raise our children to someday be independent and self-sufficient.  In Thailand, kids are raised to be interdependent on their families.  (And guess what, if you marry a Thai, you become family.)  

You kinda sound like you ideas are set in stone, but if you (or anyone else) wants to learn more about this, I highly recommend this (stupidly titled) book:  Thailand Fever.  You can get it from thepiratebay if you're a cheap bastard and can even read the first part (chapter or 2) here:  http://thailandfever.com/
It's written for Thai/western couples so that each understands the other's culture better and avoids a lot of the misunderstandings (especially concerning motivations) that are very common to such couples.  As you turn the pages in the book, the page on the left is written in english and the page on the right is the same thing but in Thai.  Really, this book will open your eyes to the fact that the western way of thinking about love, relationships, and family is not the only way.  I found it fascinating.  
Even if you and your girlfriend/spouse are of one mind about most things, the book will forewarn you of possible shenanigans you'll encounter with respect to her family (who likely don't have as westernised a way of thinking).   For instance, when some of her extended family (cousins -- her brothers and sisters know better, haha) tried to hit me up for money, I did not just tell them "No" like I was inclined to do.  This would've just caused some drama.  Instead, I did it the Thai way, haha, I told them "Sure, I can give you a loan, but I need to analyze my finances to see exactly what I can afford."  And then, whenever they asked my wife about it (via Skype) I would say that now is a bad time or I would stall them some other way.  Eventually, they realized that this khee-neeow farang (cheap honkey) wasn't giving anybody any money but no one lost any face over it.