having children is a natural thing. and being a litlle older than most here, I can tell you this....Most of the people and couples I know that chose not to have children in their 20s and 30s.. regret it now, big time.
I'm not going to waste my time trying to convince anyone otherwise, but let's see how you feel when you're 50 , and you don't go clubbing anymore, all of your friends have families and you really don't hear from them much anymore. and you spend the majority of your life alone in front of a television...while the rest of us "assholes" are watching our kids grow up to be their own person, spending time with them, and enjoying it.
I LIKE my kid..I don't just love her cuz I'm her Dad...she's funny as shit, intelligent and a very good person., and she's my blood .....I look forward to seeing her. She doesn't "drag me down"...she lifts me up.
95% of the guys here that say they "never" are going to have children...will have children

my own brother chose not to have children. And he's a great guy with a good wife. He's smart, VERY successful and seemingly has it all in spades..and every we get to talking about it he tells me he fucked up and wishes my Daughter had a first cousin.
You know what people without kids always have.?..Dogs. and they spoil the shit out of them, and treat them like they are kids
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