All things being equal regarding skill level,look the person that hits on,befriends more women at the end of the day will pick more up. You can do a lot to improve looks and skill but much is genetic/environmentle at the end of the day the game is all about statistics.
The person who steps up to the plate more will generally get on base more.
if someone doesn't think this is so go on some site where you can click women you find attractive and click everyone and keep doing it everyday and you will see. Most get internet crushes waste time blah blah. Meet real people then get crushes the people on pof,facebook,myyearbook,tagged are nothing more then a pacman charcter until you meet them