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[danielson]

i hate to sound like a dick but you already have 2 kids, its better he died as a baby than if he was actually old enough to have conscious thought/conversation, a life, ect...and you can always just have another one if you have to add another kid. frankly considering it was born with 'horrible defects', he was not intended by nature to live, and all keeping him alive would have done was ensure a life filled with torment and misery. sorry if this sounds cold.

then don't. asshole.

[Marty Champions]

this is a sad thread in more ways than one

on a serious side, R.I.P for you son man

[War-Horse]

With God on your side, you'll see your son again.     Prayers for you and yours.

[Xecutioner]

I've very sorry to hear about what has happened to your son. Take what you will from the prayers of an anonymous person, as you and your family will be in mine tonight.

[Sculpter]

Holy @*)#,...leaves me speechless!!!As a parent myself I must say I cannot comprehend having to lose a child.So very sorry to hear of your very personal loss & commend you on being a very strong person.

[gettingbetter]

Sympathies

[Special Ed]

i hate to sound like a dick but you already have 2 kids, its better he died as a baby than if he was actually old enough to have conscious thought/conversation, a life, ect...and you can always just have another one if you have to add another kid. frankly considering it was born with 'horrible defects', he was not intended by nature to live, and all keeping him alive would have done was ensure a life filled with torment and misery. sorry if this sounds cold.

MONSTER ASSHOLE OF THE YEAR QUOTE

[Tokyo Joe]

i hate to sound like a dick but you already have 2 kids, its better he died as a baby than if he was actually old enough to have conscious thought/conversation, a life, ect...and you can always just have another one if you have to add another kid. frankly considering it was born with 'horrible defects', he was not intended by nature to live, and all keeping him alive would have done was ensure a life filled with torment and misery. sorry if this sounds cold.

By far the most ridiculous post I've read here, you obviously don't have children

natural al, sorry to hear this, I hope your family is coping well after such a horrible year. My thoughts are with you today..

[body88]

condolenses bro

[HERACLES]

So sad 
My condolences
Prayers are to you and your family.

 

[phyxsius]

Sorry to hear that mate.. My condolences to your family.

Regardless what my future child become, he/she is still my child and I would love them dearly. But I would like you to know that your son's horrible defect was not by accident from God. He has plans for everyone.. Everything is a test of faith.

[phyxsius]

Good grief you guys, all that JOHN MATRIX is trying to say is that it is better for the child's sake that he died at a young age rather than living in pain his whole life.  Is that honestly ideal for you guys?  It would have been better if the child had recovered somehow but that didn't seem like it was going to happen.  I wouldn't wish a lifetime of misery and pain on anybody.  And if you think the hardship of losing a child is worse than the hardship of raising a child in constant pain than you are dead wrong and obviously don't know anybody in that situation.  One of my friends had a younger sister born autistic and as much as his parents love her, that didn't mean that raising her has come without a terrible amount of stress and pain - much moreso than had she died at a young age.

go to http://www.lifewithoutlimbs.org/index.htm. This guy might not have the same misfortunes like your son but he's not far or even worse.

[andre_avigdor]

www.10minuteflash.com

[phyxsius]

It really depends on what the disability is.  Being without limbs is one thing, but being in chronic pain is another thing entirely.

True..

[SDMF]

I am very sorry for your loss, natural al...

You are right, no matter what, you would give any and all to make your child as comfortable as possible to give them everything you can, be it a minute or a lifetime...I saw your son's site, he showed great strength as did your family.  God bless him and your family...

[MindSpin]

well, I tried to train most of last year and I guess my heart was not into it....we had a baby boy in December of 2004 born with a horrible birth defect and most of 2005 was spent trying to keep him comfortable.  He passed away in January.  I trained throughout 2005 but looking back I was very distracted and even though I was trying I don't think it was a very productive year, my mind was always somewhere else.

2006 after he passed away I had pnuemonia for a couple of months...the doctors misdiagnosed me at first and then I played hell trying to threat it.  I've got asthma so anything with my lungs is bad news.

I was going really good up until about the first of the month and i got nailed with diverticulitus...bamm!!  3 days in the hospital, diet is all f'd up.  I'm doing ok right now training really heavy.  I'm about 5'7-5'8, I know I'm not tall, I accepted it along time ago...I weigh about 205 and I'm about 12% BF so I could probably be in shape for the show but I don't know what's gonna happen when I do my follow ups with the doctors.. I don't wanna commit to this and then pull out.

I "might" do the natural michigan next year.

my son's website if anyone is interested:

http://www.caringbridge.org/cb/inputSiteName.do?method=search&siteName=rileynathan

I'm truly sorry for your loss and the pain that it must have caused everyone in your family.   

[240 is Back]

Good grief you guys, all that JOHN MATRIX is trying to say is that it is better for the child's sake that he died at a young age rather than living in pain his whole life.  Is that honestly ideal for you guys?  It would have been better if the child had recovered somehow but that didn't seem like it was going to happen.  I wouldn't wish a lifetime of misery and pain on anybody.  And if you think the hardship of losing a child is worse than the hardship of raising a child in constant pain than you are dead wrong and obviously don't know anybody in that situation.  My housemate has a younger sister born autistic and as much as his parents love her, that didn't mean that raising her has come without a terrible amount of stress and pain - much moreso than had she died at a young age.

I'm not sure many parents would agree with that.

[JamieX4200]

Aint yo mom the one with the 'tash and BO ?

She sure does ingest the white sauce with gusto!

Gurglin it and tickling my balls along the way.

She's great.

you don have tje sacl tp say it to mysoefe Full Contact Fighter Bitfh,

[J. Chimpo]

well, I tried to train most of last year and I guess my heart was not into it....we had a baby boy in December of 2004 born with a horrible birth defect and most of 2005 was spent trying to keep him comfortable.  He passed away in January.  I trained throughout 2005 but looking back I was very distracted and even though I was trying I don't think it was a very productive year, my mind was always somewhere else.

2006 after he passed away I had pnuemonia for a couple of months...the doctors misdiagnosed me at first and then I played hell trying to threat it.  I've got asthma so anything with my lungs is bad news.

I was going really good up until about the first of the month and i got nailed with diverticulitus...bamm!!  3 days in the hospital, diet is all f'd up.  I'm doing ok right now training really heavy.  I'm about 5'7-5'8, I know I'm not tall, I accepted it along time ago...I weigh about 205 and I'm about 12% BF so I could probably be in shape for the show but I don't know what's gonna happen when I do my follow ups with the doctors.. I don't wanna commit to this and then pull out.

I "might" do the natural michigan next year.

my son's website if anyone is interested:

http://www.caringbridge.org/cb/inputSiteName.do?method=search&siteName=rileynathan

That post almost riped out my heart, my condolences to you and your family 

[The Showstoppa]

you don have tje sacl tp say it to mysoefe Full Contact Fighter Bitfh,

This is why drinking heavily and posting is not recommended.

[Tokyo Joe]

I'm not sure many parents would agree with that.

exactly, 'his housemate'.... ra ra ra..

knowing someone with a problem in the family is a far cry from having a child with a problem. If you don't have children, you're a million miles from understanding..

[Man of Steel]

well, I tried to train most of last year and I guess my heart was not into it....we had a baby boy in December of 2004 born with a horrible birth defect and most of 2005 was spent trying to keep him comfortable.  He passed away in January.  I trained throughout 2005 but looking back I was very distracted and even though I was trying I don't think it was a very productive year, my mind was always somewhere else.

2006 after he passed away I had pnuemonia for a couple of months...the doctors misdiagnosed me at first and then I played hell trying to threat it.  I've got asthma so anything with my lungs is bad news.

I was going really good up until about the first of the month and i got nailed with diverticulitus...bamm!!  3 days in the hospital, diet is all f'd up.  I'm doing ok right now training really heavy.  I'm about 5'7-5'8, I know I'm not tall, I accepted it along time ago...I weigh about 205 and I'm about 12% BF so I could probably be in shape for the show but I don't know what's gonna happen when I do my follow ups with the doctors.. I don't wanna commit to this and then pull out.

I "might" do the natural michigan next year.

my son's website if anyone is interested:

http://www.caringbridge.org/cb/inputSiteName.do?method=search&siteName=rileynathan

Wow, that's a rough year for sure.....very sorry about your son and the illness that sidelined you thereafter.   I've had some rough training setbacks due to injury over the years, but your setbacks put things in perspective.....hope all is well. 

[Your MAAAAaaaa]

well, I tried to train most of last year and I guess my heart was not into it....we had a baby boy in December of 2004 born with a horrible birth defect and most of 2005 was spent trying to keep him comfortable.  He passed away in January.  I trained throughout 2005 but looking back I was very distracted and even though I was trying I don't think it was a very productive year, my mind was always somewhere else.

2006 after he passed away I had pnuemonia for a couple of months...the doctors misdiagnosed me at first and then I played hell trying to threat it.  I've got asthma so anything with my lungs is bad news.

I was going really good up until about the first of the month and i got nailed with diverticulitus...bamm!!  3 days in the hospital, diet is all f'd up.  I'm doing ok right now training really heavy.  I'm about 5'7-5'8, I know I'm not tall, I accepted it along time ago...I weigh about 205 and I'm about 12% BF so I could probably be in shape for the show but I don't know what's gonna happen when I do my follow ups with the doctors.. I don't wanna commit to this and then pull out.

I "might" do the natural michigan next year.

my son's website if anyone is interested:

http://www.caringbridge.org/cb/inputSiteName.do?method=search&siteName=rileynathan

My condolences.


You have had a bad time mate I hope the future goes well for you!!


good luck


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[Always Sore]

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