I think it's about controlling her mind. If you don't do that from the beginning, she will control your mind and you will end like a married man with kids and a complaining pig in your house.
that could be man, but who the fuck wants to put in that my work? i sure as hell don't
and on a side note, i could never really understand these "pick-up" artists
to be a pick-up artist you basically need to be a phony asshole, and that takes a hell of alot of work, this french dude and the norway guy are both "pick-up" artists and they fail about 90% of the time, and the women that they do finally pick up are really nothing to write home about

on a side note, this french dude hooked up a meeting wth 2 dutch girls for us, and the funny thing is one of them had a really pretty face, but not such a nice bod, and the other had a pretty kick-ass bod, slim with a firm round and athletic bubbleass, but her face was... but they were both pretty cool chicks actually
