LOLOL... seriously talking Cyp...you have a good woman whom you love, from what i can tell. And i would imagine you treat her with respect.
A funny story from when i was first dating my girl. We were together about a month, staring to get attached emotionally...and she wanted me to go to some stupid wine tasting thing and meet her friends. i did not want to go
i blew it off completely, ignored her texts for the day, and she was highly pissed and embarrassed.
She didn't speak to me for a full month..wouldn't return a text or call...and i sent hundreds of them. finally one day I got a text on a Saturday that said " you hurt me, and embarrassed me in front of my friends...if you ever do that again you will never hear from me as long as you live. pick me up at 8, and do not be empty-handed"
I bought her a ring from tiffanys, and never pulled any shit like that again.
Hahaha, good call my man!
I went through the whole 'macho demanding' stage too when I was in my late teens/early twenties, and soon realised that you end up going from dumb bitch, to dumber as they want the 'bad guys'

and you will never get to appreciate what a woman is this way.
Someone old guy told me when I was engaged, that "A woman is like a garden, you only get out what you put in' - sounded far from profound at the time, but I came to realise that it was the key to getting the kind of woman you want.
Funnily enough the best BJ's I ever get, is when I have spent a couple of hours just talking to the wife, and asking her how she is, what her plans are this year, even just talking about good memories etc - Most of the studs on here wonder why they are still banging the same skanks, and even when they have put another half inch on their biceps nothing changes haha
