Hypocrisy behind Fat chicks.

[PJim]

dead on....i didn't know whether to shit or wind my watch. But I ran about six red lights on the way to the jewelry store, LOL

Sounds like an episode of Curb your Enthusiasm 

[Roger Bacon]

However, youre yet to find a decent looking chick telling an obese dude that he looks better than David Beckham,Enrique iglesias, or better yet...  How many fat guys are even dating hot/skinny chicks?

My girlfriend mom tells me I look good just the way I am.

[bike nut]

Anyone else see the comedic irony behind ChazBono23 posting in a thread about fat chicks?  

[pedro01]

You see tons of blogs,Tumbrls,sites,forums etc...

This (body positive) obese chicks bragging about being fat, so proud of their curves celebrating being huge....talking (promoting)about it 24/7  how much they love eating, they hate Exercise etc... Hey its a celebration of being a BBW   (fat).....

but their ideal man ?
Either skinny or in shape guys



How "cute' they look together   awwwwww

WOOOSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Chubby chasers are usually skinny. If they are happy, more power to them.

[Army of One]

BigCyp and Groink auditioning hard for the last 2 starring roles in the new series of Queer Eye for The Straight Guy in this thread  

[El Diablo Blanco]

Threads not true.  I met some hefty chick on POF, chatted, she asked for some photos so I sent her one.  She replies that I am not her type and doesn't like guys with 6-packs.  Go figure.

[Army of One]

Threads not true.  I met some hefty chick on POF, chatted, she asked for some photos so I sent her one.  She replies that I am not her type and doesn't like guys with 6-packs.  Go figure.

Should have told her you didnt like women with minimum of 6 stomach fat rolls

[El Diablo Blanco]

Should have told her you didnt like women with minimum of 6 stomach fat rolls

I think these fatties looking for "relationships" realize any guy that is in shape is just looking to fuck.  That same photo nabbed me many other fatties on PoF.  Seems to always be fat chicks that I pickup on that site.

[Raymondo]

No, actually...i had a "dick" moment, and told her i would go, and then completely blew that shit off.

It was more than just being a dick, to be serious. We were just starting out, and it was ME who decided to "test the waters" on what i could get away with, and what she would tolerate.

 There is always going to be one person who holds the upper hand in a relationship, especially in the early stages before things get real... and i prefer it's me.

You are right, i am very accommodating, and a thoughtful person....I am not an asshole or a scumbag...but at the same time, I'm going to have my "Greg" moments (very rarely) where i do what the fuck I want, and fuck everyone......Nothing serious, I don't cheat, or disappear for days..but i have my way about me,.

it's always been that way. and it was my brilliant idea to pull a power trip and blow her off, to set the precedent i always have. and this is more subconscious than anything...i can analyze it now, years later...at the time it was not so calculated.  And she smacked that shit back across the net like Andre Agassi, i was like "fuck, this girl doesn't play"


so, in summation, i was the asshole and got what i deserved

You've done a lot of growing over the years... I read some of your posts from six years ago and you came across as a typical meathead.

Not to sound patronising, but it's nice to see that in people, almost everyone I know are the same year in- year out.

[Tapeworm]

No, actually...i had a "dick" moment, and told her i would go, and then completely blew that shit off.

It was more than just being a dick, to be serious. We were just starting out, and it was ME who decided to "test the waters" on what i could get away with, and what she would tolerate.

 There is always going to be one person who holds the upper hand in a relationship, especially in the early stages before things get real... and i prefer it's me.

You are right, i am very accommodating, and a thoughtful person....I am not an asshole or a scumbag...but at the same time, I'm going to have my "Greg" moments (very rarely) where i do what the fuck I want, and fuck everyone......Nothing serious, I don't cheat, or disappear for days..but i have my way about me,.

it's always been that way. and it was my brilliant idea to pull a power trip and blow her off, to set the precedent i always have. and this is more subconscious than anything...i can analyze it now, years later...at the time it was not so calculated.  And she smacked that shit back across the net like Andre Agassi, i was like "fuck, this girl doesn't play"


so, in summation, i was the asshole and got what i deserved

I've never been interesting enough to pull shit like that.  I just explain that I can't attend due to having something of actual importance to do.  Suddenly, dramas.  Crazy bitches.

[Big Chiro Flex]

I have the weirdest boner from reading Groink and Cyps stories....You guys are such softies.

Seriously, thats really good shit though fellas.

[Stark]

LOLOL... seriously talking Cyp...you have a good woman whom you love, from what i can tell. And i would imagine you treat her with respect.

A funny story from when i was first dating my girl. We were together about a month, staring to get attached emotionally...and she wanted me to go to some stupid wine tasting thing and meet her friends. i did not want to go

i blew it off completely, ignored her texts for the day, and she was highly pissed and embarrassed.

She didn't speak to me for a full month..wouldn't return a text or call...and i sent hundreds of them.  finally one day I got a text on a Saturday that said " you hurt me, and embarrassed me in front of my friends...if you ever do that again you will never hear from me as long as you live.  pick me up at 8, and do not be empty-handed"

I bought her a ring from tiffanys, and never pulled any shit like that again.

haha thats great - reminds me of my woman, I am a dominant guy and want to be in charge but she always gets her way, she smarter than I am and knows what she needs to do to get what she wants.
Like recently I made a smallish amount around 4k Euro by selling some shares and I told her last time when I blew a bonus I got from a customer which was also in the k region that she spend on herself and the kid that I need some attention to and that the next bigish money which comes our way and which we don't really "need" is going to be spend on me.
Guess what   

And the fucked up thing is I'm happy lol - she is fucking awesome and I love her to bits.

[Tapeworm]

haha thats great - reminds me of my woman, I am a dominant guy and want to be in charge but she always gets her way, she smarter than I am and knows what she needs to do to get what she wants.
Like recently I made a smallish amount around 4k Euro by selling some shares and I told her last time when I blew a bonus I got from a customer which was also in the k region that she spend on herself and the kid that I need some attention to and that the next bigish money which comes our way and which we don't really "need" is going to be spend on me.
Guess what   

And the fucked up thing is I'm happy lol - she is fucking awesome and I love her to bits.

Love is not knowing the exact monetary extent of your feelings.  You're a true romantic, bro.

[Palpatine Q]

haha thats great - reminds me of my woman, I am a dominant guy and want to be in charge but she always gets her way, she smarter than I am and knows what she needs to do to get what she wants.
Like recently I made a smallish amount around 4k Euro by selling some shares and I told her last time when I blew a bonus I got from a customer which was also in the k region that she spend on herself and the kid that I need some attention to and that the next bigish money which comes our way and which we don't really "need" is going to be spend on me.
Guess what   

And the fucked up thing is I'm happy lol - she is fucking awesome and I love her to bits.

Haha...nice. you know your fucked and you don't care....LOL.

and my woman is way smarter than i could ever hope to be.

 even worse, she has this special power that she ALWAYS, 100% of the time, knows when i'm lying....and I'm a good fucking liar.

it's fucked up. and not just big shit....anything. if a say a shirt cost $25, when  it was actually $35...she just looks at me and says, "why must you lie?" like DEAD ON, about everything..I'm like "WTF are you a witch or something, how can you possibly know that was a lie ??"

I simply cannot lie to her, I gave up trying to .... she has busted me every single time, no matter how trivial. it's the damndest thing

[Stark]

Love is not knowing the exact monetary extent of your feelings.  You're a true romantic, bro.

nah man I know what I am, I am not exactly romantic.

[Stark]

Haha...nice. you know your fucked and you don't care....LOL.

and my woman is way smarter than i could ever hope to be.

 even worse, she has this special power that she ALWAYS, 100% of the time, knows when i'm lying....and I'm a good fucking liar.

it's fucked up. and not just big shit....anything. if a say a shirt cost $25, when  it was actually $35...she just looks at me and says, "why must you lie?" like DEAD ON, about everything..I'm like "WTF are you a witch or something, how can you possibly know that was a lie ??"

I simply cannot lie to her, I gave up trying to .... she has busted me every single time, no matter how trivial. it's the damndest thing

Thats the other way around - she goes shopping comes home and wants me to show all her little things she bought - I sit patiently on the sofa.
Than the question... uhh how much did that set us back?
She: Ah you know...
Me: No I don't that's why I ask
She: Only like 100
Me: Come on now.... how much
She: Alright 150
Me: Alright thats not too bad

Later I see the fucking receipt and it was 250 lol and I'm happy because now I have a reason to be "man" and put my foot down and play a bit - I am pretty much disgusted with you - so I get a good blowjob later and she cooks me a nice meal and I can go and spend a day as I want to and she looks after the boy

[Palpatine Q]

Thats the other way around - she goes shopping comes home and wants me to show all her little things she bought - I sit patiently on the sofa.
Than the question... uhh how much did that set us back?
She: Ah you know...
Me: No I don't that's why I ask
She: Only like 100
Me: Come on now.... how much
She: Alright 150
Me: Alright thats not too bad

Later I see the fucking receipt and it was 250 lol and I'm happy because now I have a reason to be "man" and put my foot down and play a bit - I am pretty much disgusted with you - so I get a good blowjob later and she cooks me a nice meal and I can go and spend a day as I want to and she looks after the boy

HaHaHaaaaa...oh yeah, we play that game too. that's the give and take of it all. good stuff

what i'm saying is completely different.

The other day, i ran into a friend of mine at the gas station who i haven't seen in 6 months, completely out of the blue.......who she fucking hates his guts because he's a criminal.

and when i get home she says..."have you seen that jerkoff  Derek lately ? i had a funny feeling today."  I'm like "you're possessed by the devil, I give up"

[Stark]

HaHaHaaaaa...oh yeah, we play that game too. that's the give and take of it all. good stuff

what i'm saying is completely different.

The other day, i ran into a friend of mine at the gas station who i haven't seen in 6 months, completely out of the blue.......who she fucking hates his guts because he's a criminal.

and when i get home she's says..."have you seen that jerkoff  Derek lately ? i had a funny feeling today."  I'm like "you're possessed by the devil, I give up"

Lol sixth fucking sense - its creepy - Mayne a face we make or some look we give them.

One thing that pisses me off to no end is the inability for woman to let a subject go, she could go on and on about things - and you just want to bury your head in the fucking sand and NOT think about the next big payment or what ever.

[Rudee]

Fat on a woman absolutely disgusts me.  Even a tiny bit.   I only date thin in-shape women.  And if a woman I'm with every gets fat, she's toast.

[Palpatine Q]

Lol sixth fucking sense - its creepy - Mayne a face we make or some look we give them.

One thing that pisses me off to no end is the inability for woman to let a subject go, she could go on and on about things - and you just want to bury your head in the fucking sand and NOT think about the next big payment or what ever.

oh geez man. let's not even go there...The "truce thread" is a "stop and chat" to them....LOL.

Me...i have a conversation. it has a beginning, a middle and an end. i make my point, and stop talking....not them, conversations are circular to them, an endless loop. 

[polychronopolous]

oh geez man. let's not even go there...The "truce thread" is a "stop and chat" to them....LOL.

Me...i have a conversation. it has a beginning, a middle and an end. i make my point, and stop talking....not them, conversations are circular to them, an endless loop. 

Just by reading thru your posts over the past few months it seems like you have one helluva woman. Any thoughts or discussions towards marriage at this point or if you are engaged, a marriage date?

[Moen]

Fat on a woman absolutely disgusts me.  Even a tiny bit.   I only date thin in-shape women.  And if a woman I'm with every gets fat, she's toast.

Agreed. Fat women are disgusting pigs better sent to Auschwitz.

[Big Chiro Flex]

Haven't read whole thread. In before Basile?

\turns on Uberman mode

On topic:

You can be fat. Or you can be happy. But you can't be fat and happy. It's a truism of life.

Fatism is a textbook exercise in cognitive dissonance. Subject wrestles with the desire to be happy, and an overwhelming feeling of unahappiness because of fat-ocity. Solution? Change perception and models of thinking to outwardly project an attitude of acceptance of obesity, and surround oneself with folks who feed off the behavior through fetishism or sadism.

Sick and twisted. But then, fatism is just a measuring point on the scale that all folks with body image disorders suffer from. Like bodybuilders, for example.

Pot meets kettle.

/shuts off Uberman mode.

Lol great post. I bet Uberman would be a likable guy if he could shut off Uberman mode himself

[epic_alien]

BigCyp and Groink auditioning hard for the last 2 starring roles in the new series of Queer Eye for The Straight Guy in this thread  

no shit, these guys are whipped

[fernandestf]

They want guys in shape , but they get nothing, they got guys on the same level... fat or similar