remember dude, i'm an american of Germanic ancestry 
and of course, this woman who gave me uncle flowers was an american woman of Scotch-Irish hertiage, no eastern euro heritage in these parts 
not to toot my own horn, but when i made an effort to hook-up with some polish girls i usually had success (2 out of 3 times roughly) but what gets me is that i'm just not too keen on emotional closeness, so when these girls started trying to get too close to me i would basicially just flee like a pu$$y 
just being honest man
so are you with a special someone now?
Ah ok, I thought you had Polish roots. Did you studied Polish on an university? I was only 3 times in Poland, long time ago, so I know only a few words like gen dobry, tak/nie, dzieki & smacznego (but I hated that red soup

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Being honest is a good thing. Yeah, it can be hard to get close with someone, esp with some "luggage in the back", and keep in mind, many women act the same way, the young/naive ones excluded. It takes time to learn someone and feel comfortable.
No, I ended my 5+ year relationship a year ago (I wasn't happy and saw no ways to remove the obstacles). Right now, I have other priorities on my mind, like my work/future plans, and I've found out that I'm done with most Dutch women (also being honest, haha). In case I meet a nice woman, I will take things much more slowly to find out who she really is.