First off.. what you need to understand is.... THE BITCH DIDNT FORGET A DAMN THING... IT WAS DONE ON PURPOSE
That move is called "the bridge".
Call an old girl up and say: "Hey, I know I haven't called you in a couple of months, but I could swear I left my Smiths 'Meat is Murder' cd at your place. You mind if I come pick it up?"
Hopefully, she responds with: "Everytime I hear Morrissey I think of you. We had some good times listening to that album. Why were you such an asshole?"
"I really had a lot of shit going on at the time that I just wasn't ready to open up to you. You want to meet for coffee so we are at a neutral location, or do you want to meet at your place?"
You just walked over the bridge to an old familiar land.