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Re: GETBIG - Advice on Dating/Women
« Reply #25 on: October 27, 2012, 07:48:46 PM »
Has nothing to do with it. I dont dance because 1) I do not like to dance, and 2) because I am really bad at it.

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« Reply #26 on: October 27, 2012, 07:49:23 PM »
I've never been able to get mysef to dance at a club. But if I go to a techno concert I go crazy. Guess its the live music that makes the difference.

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« Reply #27 on: October 28, 2012, 01:29:14 AM »
haha lol.

I just don't get the appeal to dancing. Glad to know its not just me. I do not mind if a woman I see goes dancing without me. What I mind is when they drag me along or they get mad if I do not want to go. Then I feel obligated to go, but am miserable when I am there. Though I try to make the best out of the situation, but it gets old after a while.

but how would you feel if you found out that some horny black dudes be bump-n-grind dancing up on her while she goes dancing to the clubs "alone"?

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« Reply #28 on: October 28, 2012, 03:22:13 AM »
I've never been able to get mysef to dance at a club. But if I go to a techno concert I go crazy. Guess its the live music that makes the difference.
and the LSD.

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Re: GETBIG - Advice on Dating/Women
« Reply #29 on: October 28, 2012, 09:57:21 AM »
We've discussed this before and I feel the same obstacle, I can't stand dancing/screaming/attention whoring folks, not my scene  :-\
But I think it's better to put your focus on women with other interests like sports, hiking, biking, cultural events, etc.

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Re: GETBIG - Advice on Dating/Women
« Reply #30 on: October 28, 2012, 10:01:30 AM »
We've discussed this before and I feel the same obstacle, I can't stand dancing/screaming/attention whoring folks, not my scene  :-\
But I think it's better to put your focus on women with other interests like sports, hiking, biking, cultural events, etc.

agree... but all women like to dance for some reason.  very odd.

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Re: GETBIG - Advice on Dating/Women
« Reply #31 on: October 28, 2012, 10:10:29 AM »
Women correlate a man's ability to dance with his skill in bed.





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Re: GETBIG - Advice on Dating/Women
« Reply #32 on: October 28, 2012, 10:10:48 AM »
agree... but all women like to dance for some reason.  very odd.

That "why" question is a good one. I think it's a symbolic tradition for women to socialize/seduce. A woman making funky moves gets more attention than a Martini sipping girl in the corner.

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« Reply #33 on: October 28, 2012, 10:12:15 AM »
Women correlate a man's ability to dance with his skill in bed.





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Bingo, it's that simple

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Re: GETBIG - Advice on Dating/Women
« Reply #34 on: October 28, 2012, 10:22:40 AM »
Women correlate a man's ability to dance with his skill in bed.





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According to these grave depictions of skill he never got laid.
Or is this the Savile dance?  :D
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« Reply #35 on: October 28, 2012, 10:32:26 AM »
According to these grave depictions of skill he never got laid.
Or is this the Savile dance?  :D

More so than just plain skill in dancing, it's the confidence that exudes from you as you partake in the festivities.  Women like to see a man who isn't afraid to move when the music starts playing, laugh when something is humourful or move on if something is a waste of time.  They enjoy being the center of the show.  They don't want to simply hold your hand and stand by your side as people circle around skilled dancers, instead they want you to be the dancer and make her the center of the night.

It's all about self-confidence and being able to get out on a dancefloor and move (with confidence) makes women (and gay men) very attracted.



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« Reply #36 on: October 28, 2012, 10:35:17 AM »
More so than just plain skill in dancing, it's the confidence that exudes from you as you partake in the festivities.  Women like to see a man who isn't afraid to move when the music starts playing, laugh when something is humourful or move on if something is a waste of time.  They enjoy being the center of the show.  They don't want to simply hold your hand and stand by your side as people circle around skilled dancers, instead they want you to be the dancer and make her the center of the night.

It's all about self-confidence and being able to get out on a dancefloor and move (with confidence) makes women (and gay men) very attracted.



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Well put by a sophisticated player.
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« Reply #37 on: October 28, 2012, 10:46:56 AM »
Well put by a sophisticated player.

Thank you handsome!

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« Reply #38 on: October 28, 2012, 10:50:40 AM »
I've said this many tmes before and I'll say it again.  Dancing is for women and homosexuals.
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« Reply #39 on: October 28, 2012, 01:48:56 PM »
If you dance badly and she's still keen, you're in.  If your poor dance skills are a dealbreaker for her, and she gets whisked away by a Latino salsa machine, you're just going to have to deal with it.  But if you won't dance at all then you're seen as an insecure spoilsport.

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« Reply #40 on: October 28, 2012, 01:57:19 PM »
If you dance badly and she's still keen, you're in.  If your poor dance skills are a dealbreaker for her, and she gets whisked away by a Latino salsa machine, you're just going to have to deal with it.  But if you won't dance at all then you're seen as an insecure spoilsport.

I'm not insecure, I'm a man with principles. But how do you explain this in a club with loud music?  :-\

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« Reply #41 on: October 28, 2012, 02:10:33 PM »
I'm not insecure, I'm a man with principles. But how do you explain this in a club with loud music?  :-\

I couldn't really say.  Haven't been in a club in years.  They seemed to turn ordinary, mild-mannered women into strutting entitled bitches from hell who strongly dislike the dress sense of every woman in the room and need you to agree, so I decided not to bother unless forced to attend some gawdawful occasion.

Still stand by my assessment of a woman's judgement of a man who refuses to try to dance tho.

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« Reply #42 on: October 28, 2012, 02:14:25 PM »
Best part is 80% of guys and girls who think they can dance cant.

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« Reply #43 on: October 28, 2012, 02:21:42 PM »
dancing ability really doesn't have much to do with sexual ability/power, that's more from being ultra fit and having great stamina

but of course if you have some great talent with your lips and tounge, then this stamina/fitness thing isn't really needed ;D

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« Reply #44 on: October 28, 2012, 02:23:10 PM »
I couldn't really say.  Haven't been in a club in years.  They seemed to turn ordinary, mild-mannered women into strutting entitled bitches from hell who strongly dislike the dress sense of every woman in the room and need you to agree, so I decided not to bother unless forced to attend some gawdawful occasion.

Still stand by my assessment of a woman's judgement of a man who refuses to try to dance tho.

Haha, great observation. Both men and women show another part of themselves, dictated by all kinds of do's & don'ts (body language, clothing, etc). Well, it's all just a play, so I can't take it too serious.

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« Reply #45 on: October 28, 2012, 02:26:11 PM »
I was dancing last night with three women, its great having them shove their tits in your face. I see all the beta males staring at me while I seduce their women and I laugh.
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« Reply #46 on: October 28, 2012, 02:29:04 PM »
dancing ability really doesn't have much to do with sexual ability/power, that's more from being ultra fit and having great stamina

but of course if you have some great talent with your lips and tounge, then this stamina/fitness thing isn't really needed ;D

Wrong my man, a sensual moving person is a clear indication that he/she likes to move and feels good about his/her body. Dancing = body language = act of seducing. But hey, look at my avatar quote, that's the real me.

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« Reply #47 on: October 28, 2012, 02:30:25 PM »

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Re: GETBIG - Advice on Dating/Women
« Reply #48 on: October 28, 2012, 02:32:05 PM »
If you dance badly and she's still keen, you're in.  If your poor dance skills are a dealbreaker for her, and she gets whisked away by a Latino salsa machine, you're just going to have to deal with it.  But if you won't dance at all then you're seen as an insecure spoilsport.
Che is quite the salsa dancing machine...

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« Reply #49 on: October 28, 2012, 02:50:33 PM »
Wrong my man, a sensual moving person is a clear indication that he/she likes to move and feels good about his/her body. Dancing = body language = act of seducing. But hey, look at my avatar quote, that's the real me.

you're right man, dancing is an art of seduction, for both females and males

but i'm talking about actual performance in the bedroom, and a fella that can keep up a good, strong, and steady pace of pumping ass or pussy gets that power from being ultra fit and having a very high stamina level as it enables him to pound, pound, and then pound some more just like a piston lol