How does one improve his own confidence?

[diamondcut]

I'm sorry, I thought you were for real. You're just looking to philosophize about nada, as the days unfold and Time gets short. Can't help you.

my philosopher's hat is no longer being worn,

i will heed your advice to read this book

you seem like every bit of a smartass as i

so you must know what's going on

[manuelsonn]

my philosopher's hat is no longer being worn,

i will heed your advice to read this book

you seem like every bit of a smartass as i

so you must know what's going on

maybe will be better for u to wait till puberty and just after that u may start posting pseudophilospohical crap

[diamondcut]

maybe will be better for u to wait till puberty and just after that u may start posting pseudophilospohical crap

you need to work on your insults

[dj181]

I'm sorry, I thought you were for real. You're just looking to philosophize about nada, as the days unfold and Time gets short. Can't help you.

diamondcut=anabolichalo=PNS=bluto

[diamondcut]

diamondcut=anabolichalo=PNS=bluto

How dare you

My posts are thought provoking and interesting as well as relevant

Whereas his threads are useless, repetitive, and boring

[dj181]

How dare you

My posts are thought provoking and interesting as well as relevant

Whereas his threads are useless, repetitive, and boring

 

[GoneAway]

how do you become a more confident man, to change yourself mentally without changing anything else?


how are losers able to appear confident? do they not think they are losers? do they try to "forget" what it is that makes them inferior?

It's about getting a new perspective. One that you truly believe is right. Where you're unashamed to be feeling that way and no matter what anyone says, you know 100% that it's the right way to feel.

You can be bald, short, fat, only have one eye, have pimples everywhere and a tiny cute penis. That's just your outside - can't do much about nature. It works in funny ways. Aslong as your inside believes that the life you live is right, fuck what anyone thinks they know by judging your outside appearance. People don't know shit. The sooner you start not giving a FUCK what people think about you, the sooner you will realise a better life for yourself. "Let it be..."

[RustyTrenbolona]

diamondcut=anabolichalo=PNS=bluto

i done got trolled well played

[Meso_z]

Do what I do. When I do presentations to people twice my age, more years of experience than I have years on Earth and job titles that frequently include the words 'vice president' or 'chief' I take time to look them all in the eye. I look them over and see shortcomings. Bald, fat, lazy eyes, short. I remind myself that if I wanted to, I could kill everyone in the room with my bare hands and that they're only alive because I allow them to.

Crazy shit like that does help breaking people down into small, manageable parts. This goes for the hot girl to the CEO. They're just people.

[whitewidow]

being confident is important especially for a man


if you have feelings of insecurity how do you get rid of these feelings. if one is critical of oneself, how is that man ever able to become a confident human being if he is constantly feeling inadequate in his own mind?


how do you become a more confident man, to change yourself mentally without changing anything else?


how are losers able to appear confident? do they not think they are losers? do they try to "forget" what it is that makes them inferior?

you gotta be a good looking guy like me! having money and muscles does not hurt either

[WOOO]

being confident is important especially for a man


if you have feelings of insecurity how do you get rid of these feelings. if one is critical of oneself, how is that man ever able to become a confident human being if he is constantly feeling inadequate in his own mind?


how do you become a more confident man, to change yourself mentally without changing anything else?


how are losers able to appear confident? do they not think they are losers? do they try to "forget" what it is that makes them inferior?

daily multivitamin

[Moen]

you have just been promoted to tier 1 poster in my mind

Why am I not surprised... 

[dj181]

Why am I not surprised... 

drop some wisdom for us here brother

[Tapeworm]

should jennifer have said: "thank you! i am glad you are beginning to take notice of the effort i have been putting into my work"

Made me squint.  7/10.

[SF1900]

Synthol + Bodybuilding Radio Show + Stripper + Coming on a bodybuilding board and saying, "YOURE ALL JEALOUS HATERS"

This is how you develop true confidence.

[Moen]

drop some wisdom for us here brother

How to improve self-confidence: accept yourself, the more you are at peace with yourself, the more self-confidence you'll have.

Self-confident people rely on themselves, insecure people rely on others.

If you're insecure now and you want to become self-confident: start doing your own thing (whatever that may be) and be happy about it.

Insecurity is easy to spot: the loud mouths are always the most insecure ones. Derek Anthony comes to mind with his constant attention seeking (relying on others). He can tell the world he's living the dream all day long (or better yet, WAS living the dream  ), it takes no Freud to immediately see he must feel terrible inside. He's completely at war with himself and hates everything about himself.

[Tito24]

[flinstones1]

i don't believe you can fake confidence either.


but i believe that people who are self-critical are flawed in that they can never feel confident in themselves.


people who are bodybuilders for example, who are so critical of their own bodies, do not generally have a lot of self confidence. a lot of these men do not shake the mental trauma that has been ingrained in them early in life and although they continue to progress and become physically fit and a physical prowess and specimen, they are never truly at ease or comfortable with themselves, always wanting to become better, and thus never achieving a state of relaxation or happiness, and ultimately always lacking in self confidence because they are never truly happy with themselves

what are you talking about? I do it all the time......deep down im the most humble inseure  critical dude around and every chick I know thinks Im an arrogant douche bag. Just put on an act it aint hard to fake.....Kevin levrone was insecure as fuk....what grown man has a nose job and stuffs his pants  

[mass243]

Learn not to give fuk.

After all that's what confidence is; not caring about what others think !!
Because you do what you want. And you do it your own way.

[Hulkotron]

The trick is to actually be competent and knowledgable so you don't have to pretend to be.

I don't look at "sleeping with women" as a sign of success in a man, any idiot with a dick that works can pull that off.

[Howard]

being confident is important especially for a man


if you have feelings of insecurity how do you get rid of these feelings. if one is critical of oneself, how is that man ever able to become a confident human being if he is constantly feeling inadequate in his own mind?


how do you become a more confident man, to change yourself mentally without changing anything else?


how are losers able to appear confident? do they not think they are losers? do they try to "forget" what it is that makes them inferior?

Simple! It is no differen then driving a car . The more you do it and the more experience you get the more confident and relaxed you are when doing it. The biggest mistake young guys make with woman is only going after a small number of girls in bars or asking for dates, etc. I'm not saying you need to bed 1000 babes, but asking a lot of girls out and being used to dating builds confidence.

[MikMaq]

Meh people get this shit all wrong.

For one thing everyone is insecure and that's the way life should be, otherwise your likely quite delusional.

What one has to do is remove the uncertainty and doubt, by not being afraid of the negatives something pseudo confident people cannot do.

I'm quite confident I have intelligence, I'm confident I'm fat, I'm confident I have social impairments,  I'm confident I'm gonna die, and I'm  also confident that there is little people can do to effect when I die.

Confidences is about being self aware not self esteem. Being able to see how your flaws relate to others in the moment is the best way to be.

Too many people turn on blinders to shit that there bad at.

IF your aware your ugly when asking a chick out the scenario of being rejected isn't really taken personally, because you have confidence that your ugly.

Now if you were afraid to accept that unpleasant reality, every time you ask a chick out that uncertainty  is there, and whether or not she says yes you still always have to deal with that. Because your afraid to deal with that uncertainty, your taking on a much larger parcel.



  

[Ursus]

As I got older I got way more confident.

A lot is practise. The more you do of something the better you get.

The more people you talk to the less of a big deal it is.

When I started work at 16 in a shop that made me improve in confidence and enabled me to chat to all people of different ages as literally I had to.

I think this helped me more than anything.

I also found that whilst people treat me different to a small degree when I wear glasses and when I do not, knowing what you are talking about and being assured helps also. If you do not appear confident others will not believe that you are.

With glasses people assume you are a big friendly giant. Without glasses people assume you are a big bully. Honestly I am totally relaxed and mild mannered pretty much all the time.

[Cleanest Natural]

jerking off with your buddy is surely not a sign of confidence 

so masking those beta qualities with hormones backfires and makes you even hornier for him 

[kyomu]

The secret of having confidence is just loving anything and forget about having confidence.
Your ideal confidence is just built with your prejudice and stereo type. Thats why you can not be real you.