How does one improve his own confidence?

[manuelsonn]

jerking off with your buddy is surely not a sign of confidence 

so masking those beta qualities with hormones backfires and makes you even hornier for him 

lol, ursus si bluto, incredibil cat de jos a ajuns situl asta

[che]

The secret of having confidence is just loving anything and forget about having confidence.
Your ideal confidence is just built with your prejudice and stereo type. Thats why you can not be real you.

Engrish please

[Cleanest Natural]

lol, ursus si bluto, incredibil cat de jos a ajuns situl asta

ursus il stresez de ani de zile ca minte ca nu ia nimic si e si putin oligofren, insa bluto, nu stiu cine a fost, dar era funny

[manuelsonn]

hmm, cred ca-l confund pe bluto cu grasul ala demascat, imi scapa numele,, oricum da-l in plnoastra pe ursus

[Cleanest Natural]

As I got older I got way more confident.

A lot is practise. The more you do of something the better you get.

The more people you talk to the less of a big deal it is.

When I started work at 16 in a shop that made me improve in confidence and enabled me to chat to all people of different ages as literally I had to.

I think this helped me more than anything.

I also found that whilst people treat me different to a small degree when I wear glasses and when I do not, knowing what you are talking about and being assured helps also. If you do not appear confident others will not believe that you are.

With glasses people assume you are a big friendly giant. Without glasses people assume you are a big bully. Honestly I am totally relaxed and mild mannered pretty much all the time.

you seem half retarded not confident

[manuelsonn]

you seem half retarded not confident

he's confident in his retardeness

[MikMaq]

he's confident in his retardeness

your mixing up points dude. I'm that retard not the one he's talking about.

[Tito24]

Wife has a gangbang with 26 men

[Ursus]

you seem half retarded not confident

You seem half bothered.

That is half more than you should fella.

[Nirvana]

Do what I do. When I do presentations to people twice my age, more years of experience than I have years on Earth and job titles that frequently include the words 'vice president' or 'chief' I take time to look them all in the eye. I look them over and see shortcomings. Bald, fat, lazy eyes, short. I remind myself that if I wanted to, I could kill everyone in the room with my bare hands and that they're only alive because I allow them to.

Crazy shit like that does help breaking people down into small, manageable parts. This goes for the hot girl to the CEO. They're just people.

[_bruce_]

Do what I do. When I do presentations to people twice my age, more years of experience than I have years on Earth and job titles that frequently include the words 'vice president' or 'chief' I take time to look them all in the eye. I look them over and see shortcomings. Bald, fat, lazy eyes, short. I remind myself that if I wanted to, I could kill everyone in the room with my bare hands and that they're only alive because I allow them to.

Crazy shit like that does help breaking people down into small, manageable parts. This goes for the hot girl to the CEO. They're just people.

 

[Tapeworm]

I imagine them discovering too late that there is no toilet paper and their daughter is going through a sexually experimental phase.

[B_B_C]

probably best not to come here often

[a_ahmed]

Stop being a pussy, grow some balls /thread

You shouldn't care what others think to begin with. This is one of the spoils of the western 'civilization'. Everyone is obsessed about what others think. First it was women, now it's men too. Media to blame for sure. Including 'social media', so majority of society now is online. Interact with people every chance you get, not just online lol.

Lack of confidence comes from thinking of what others think about what you say/do/etc... That doesn't mean do stupid things or say stupid things and that's confidence. No... but don't think in every situation like it's an exam. Relax. You're not suppose to please everyone and don't expect the same back.

You could be smiling and a happy go getter guy, and you'll come across douchebags who will not say hello back, who will not smile back, who will be a dick. So what? Their loss not yours Likewise you don't have to go into everyone's face like that either.

I guess it's something you learn as life goes on.

[GoneAway]

The secret of having confidence is just loving anything and forget about having confidence.
Your ideal confidence is just built with your prejudice and stereo type. Thats why you can not be real you.

I agree. It's confidence in who you are and all that it entails in your life, not necessarily what the general stereotype of confidence is by others.

[Palpatine Q]

Stop being a pussy, grow some balls /thread

You shouldn't care what others think to begin with. This is one of the spoils of the western 'civilization'. Everyone is obsessed about what others think. First it was women, now it's men too. Media to blame for sure. Including 'social media', so majority of society now is online. Interact with people every chance you get, not just online lol.

Lack of confidence comes from thinking of what others think about what you say/do/etc... That doesn't mean do stupid things or say stupid things and that's confidence. No... but don't think in every situation like it's an exam. Relax. You're not suppose to please everyone and don't expect the same back.

You could be smiling and a happy go getter guy, and you'll come across douchebags who will not say hello back, who will not smile back, who will be a dick. So what? Their loss not yours Likewise you don't have to go into everyone's face like that either.

I guess it's something you learn as life goes on.

yes, and i'm sure there are no insecure people in Arabia 

[a_ahmed]

yes, and i'm sure there are no insecure people in Arabia  

Who invented the pop culture where women obsess about how they look and how fat they are?

How about the same for males as of recently?

Clearly Arabs who wear abayas (females) and thobes (males) -- in other words not busy worrying about exposing themselves.

Western pop culture is responsible for the obsessivness of looks, 'self-esteem', 'lack of confidence', etc...

You wana know about arab self-confidence? How about little children throwing rocks at tanks? Using sling shots against armed soldiers who beat them and shoot at theM?

In contrast to what? Jersey shore and spoiled biaatches crying over their make up or the kardashian sisters? Talking like brain dead fish about "OOMGG you took my purse, now I duuunnn waaantt iiiiii eeeew"

[Palpatine Q]

Who invented the pop culture where women obsess about how they look and how fat they are?

How about the same for males as of recently?

Clearly Arabs who wear abayas (females) and thobes (males) -- in other words not busy worrying about exposing themselves.

Western pop culture is responsible for the obsessivness of looks, 'self-esteem', 'lack of confidence', etc...

You wana know about arab self-confidence? How about little children throwing rocks at tanks? Using sling shots against armed soldiers who beat them and shoot at theM?

In contrast to what? Jersey shore and spoiled biaatches crying over their make up or the kardashian sisters? Talking like brain dead fish about "OOMGG you took my purse, now I duuunnn waaantt iiiiii eeeew"

LOL....i don't care...muslims aren't even humans in my opinion. when they get slaughtered and bombed... i feel the same when they show the starving dogs on television. It sucks but who really cares

[magikusar]

do dozens of reps of calisthenics daily.

observe how stupid others are

[Kwon_2]

LOL....i don't care...muslims aren't even humans in my opinion. when they get slaughtered and bombed... i feel the same when they show the starving dogs on television. It sucks but who really cares

It's true, muslims aren't human, when you see them you can clearly see they have an alternate motive and Floyd.

[Palpatine Q]

It's true, muslims aren't human, when you see them you can clearly see they have an alternate motive and Floyd.

Absolutely...and Floyd

[che]

Pretty simple  ,the more success you experience doing something (bodybuilding , sports, work , talking to girls.....etc) the more confident you become.

[dj181]

Meh people get this shit all wrong.

For one thing everyone is insecure and that's the way life should be, otherwise your likely quite delusional.

What one has to do is remove the uncertainty and doubt, by not being afraid of the negatives something pseudo confident people cannot do.

I'm quite confident I have intelligence, I'm confident I'm fat, I'm confident I have social impairments,  I'm confident I'm gonna die, and I'm  also confident that there is little people can do to effect when I die.

Confidences is about being self aware not self esteem. Being able to see how your flaws relate to others in the moment is the best way to be.

Too many people turn on blinders to shit that there bad at.

IF your aware your ugly when asking a chick out the scenario of being rejected isn't really taken personally, because you have confidence that your ugly.

Now if you were afraid to accept that unpleasant reality, every time you ask a chick out that uncertainty  is there, and whether or not she says yes you still always have to deal with that. Because your afraid to deal with that uncertainty, your taking on a much larger parcel.



  

if one has no insecurities then that is clear and obvious proof that they are indeed a sociopath

[kh300]

Don't give a shit!!!!

You want a quick way to become happy and confident? This is so contrary to our societal conditioning, but you need to give up your desire to want. The root of all suffering is desire. Desires will always exceed reality. Your problem isn't that you have no confidence, its that you have to many desires.

''I desire a hot girlfriend. I desire a nice car. I desire a big house. I desire a better paying job. I desire more free time, I desire less stress.''
People always say 'dream big and set goals'.. its all bullshit. Trying to fulfill your never ending desires will put such a burden on your ego, you will never find happiness which equals confidence.

You will find that if you reduce your desires it has a direct correlation to happiness. Stop desiring to change people. Stop desiring to have this or that. Instead, be at peace with what is now. except what is, enjoy your life as is. That getbiggers is confidence.

[Donny]

send me your hard earned money....i will tell you all the secrets....