I shit my pants during class in 2nd grade. I was not well liked after that happened. It sucked. All the cute girls were like fuck you shitty, I don't want to sit next to you. It me took a while but I did what you have to do, I rebuilt. Eventually I grew to be a pussy slaying ass kicker. Envied and reviled by men, adored by women.
Attack your catastrophe with gratitude and zest. If the shit never hit the fan you would live your entire life soft and untested.