I've had this happen a time or two with various women. I reacted like you did on previous occasions as well. (Got visibly pissed.)
But, one time - with one particular woman, I said, "OK. Sounds good." Got dressed, got a snack, and acted like I couldn't give a shit less if we ever had sex or not.
That reaction completely threw her into a tailspin and she was practically begging for it less than an hour later.
Interesting to note that when I did this I truly didn't care if I slept with her because I was dating multiple women at the time and knew that if this one didn't put out, women who did were simply a phone call away.