My dad was promiscuous. But I do have strong morals I feel I differ from my family. Never cheating always treat with respect. Now her. She lied and said I forget two. Which I just felt was a obv lie even for a quiet shy girl. Turned out to be four. No biggie. I have been with more but what stood out is what my friend said. If they can lie about something little they can later lie about something big. Is this a scare? She also told me she had some guy take advantage of her at a party she was drunk n blacked out. Later turns out she admits she was drunk but wasn't blacked out so was conscious. So why lie. She's never lied about anything present. Just her past.... Why? And what do I do. She truely is a good girl what I see.
Well if she lies that's because she wants to please you. We all make mistakes. If you want to make sure she s not going to do wrong with you, you have to be certain she admires and fears you genuinely, and keep her in check. Women are made to be faithful to men who have a strong heart...and a strong hand and cock. Most of the time you have to use heart and cock, very rarely should you have to slap her, but it might be required once or twice in a lifetime.
Again no woman genuinely respects a man who doesnt dominate her sexually, physically.
Make sure to break her and let her know how disgusted you are by her lies and past bad actions, try to find with her why she acted that way and make sure she understands why these were mistakes. Let her in the dark for a few days or weeks, then bone her. If in the meantime she s looking for other dudes you can forget her it means it was all an act again, and if she s desperate and submited, then get her back. (And bone her like there's no tomorow).
You re probably a little different than your dad cause your mother told you the bad things he did caused you and her a lot of suferings, still his blood, genes, preprogrammations are in your own body and some real life situations can recall his own past choices in your own life. Again at this point, you better not listen to him, or "yourself", that "yourself" being teinted with his, but to God directly, as only God is above everything and can be unilateraly trusted.