Thai massage parlors fix this
LOL True, "massages" are one answer... but you have to pay for those. In the gay world there are three kinds of massages
1) therapeutic: typical massage.
2) sensual: typical massage, but the masseur will be shirtless, in shorts, a thong, or nude, and you can cop a feel or many feels.
3) erotic: massage is optional. You can skip the foreplay and get down to business. It concludes with a "happy ending!" You get to define what "happy" is.