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Re: Sperm Donor forced to pay child support to lesbian cuple. JUST WRONG!!
« Reply #50 on: January 25, 2014, 12:52:12 PM »
I can't back this up with scientific evidence, but I believe this is too confusing for a young child. He/she needs a biological father & mother figure, both with their own qualities.

While I agree it is ideal when children have a traditional family life, this often isn't the case. Whether the parents are gay or straight is not the problem. The issue is dysfunction and a lack of commitment or responsibility.

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Re: Sperm Donor forced to pay child support to lesbian cuple. JUST WRONG!!
« Reply #51 on: January 26, 2014, 10:16:16 PM »
why do they even know his name

isnt there privacy there?

total bullsheet

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Re: Sperm Donor forced to pay child support to lesbian cuple. JUST WRONG!!
« Reply #52 on: January 27, 2014, 03:21:42 AM »
why do they even know his name

isnt there privacy there?

total bullsheet

I don't think this was done at a clinic; if that were the case, violating HIPAA laws to divulge this man's name would indeed be a federal offense...I think this trio had an "arrangement" and old boy creampied one of the dykes.
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Re: Sperm Donor forced to pay child support to lesbian cuple. JUST WRONG!!
« Reply #53 on: January 27, 2014, 03:42:12 AM »

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Re: Sperm Donor forced to pay child support to lesbian cuple. JUST WRONG!!
« Reply #54 on: October 01, 2014, 08:18:44 PM »
http://www.nbcnews.com/health/womens-health/black-donors-sperm-mistakenly-sent-white-parents-lawsuit-n215801

Black Donor's Sperm Mistakenly Sent to White Parents: Lawsuit

A white Ohio mom is suing a sperm bank for sending her vials from a black donor, saying her biracial 2-year-old daughter will be stigmatized by her family and the "intolerant" town where they live and has to travel to get her hair done.

Jennifer Cramblett thought she was being inseminated with a white man's sperm in 2011 and only discovered after she was pregnant that the Midwest Sperm Bank sent the wrong batch, according to the lawsuit filed in Cook County Circuit Court.

The child, Payton, is now 2 years old and already experiencing prejudice in Uniontown, where 98 percent of the residents are white, court papers say.

"I am happy that I have a healthy child," Cramblett told NBC News. "But I'm not going to let them get away with not being held accountable."

Cramlett's lawyer, Thomas Intili, told NBC News his client "lives in an all-white community in eastern Ohio. She did not encounter any African-American people until she entered college. Not all her friends and family members are racially sensitive."

As an example of the difficulties the family faces, the suit cited hair care for the toddler.

"Getting a young daughter's hair cut is not particularly stressful for most mothers, but to Jennifer it is not a routine matter, because Payton has hair typical of an African American girl," the suit says. "To get a decent cut, Jennifer must travel to a black neighborhood, far from where she lives, where she is obviously different in appearance, and not overtly welcome."

"I don't want her to ever feel like she's an outcast," Cramblett told NBC News.

Midwest Sperm Bank ? which touts "the highest standards of quality control" on its website ? declined to comment.

The suit says that when Midwest took her phone order for vials for Donor No. 380, someone in the office misread the handwritten number as 330 and sent that donor's sperm to the fertility clinic.

After she got pregnant, Cramblett called to order eight more vials that her partner, Amanda, would use to try to get pregnant with a sibling for Payton.

It was during that conversation that she learned the bank had previously sent No. 330 to her doctor, who then confirmed that donor had been used.

"Jennifer was crying, confused and upset. All of the thought, care and planning that she and Amanda had undertaken to control their baby's parentage had been rendered meaningless. In an instant, Jennifer's excitement and anticipation of her pregnancy was replaced with anger, disappointment and fear," the court papers say.

Intili said the sperm bank quickly cut off contact with Cramblett and sent her only an apology and a refund check for six vials.

"I was floored," Cramblett said Wednesday. "I couldn't believe somebody just had the lack of compassion that they had."

Cramblett said she wants to move somewhere with more cultural diversity and good schools. Her suit does not specify damages, but Intili said she needs enough money to leave Uniontown.

"Many people could have already had this happen to them," she told NBC News. "It's disheartening, and I would never want somebody else to be scared to go through this process."

Intili said: "They've made the one mistake a sperm bank can't make. It's not like she was ordering pizza."

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Re: Sperm Donor forced to pay child support to lesbian cuple. JUST WRONG!!
« Reply #55 on: October 01, 2014, 11:37:05 PM »
While I agree it is ideal when children have a traditional family life, this often isn't the case. Whether the parents are gay or straight is not the problem. The issue is dysfunction and a lack of commitment or responsibility.


I agree with that bold written part, but the fact that more and more children grow up in broken or gay 'families' worries me. It has partly resulted in this modern/confused society with manly women end feminine men :-\

(sorry for the late response)

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Re: Sperm Donor forced to pay child support to lesbian cuple. JUST WRONG!!
« Reply #56 on: October 02, 2014, 04:53:17 AM »
While I agree it is ideal when children have a traditional family life, this often isn't the case. Whether the parents are gay or straight is not the problem. The issue is dysfunction and a lack of commitment or responsibility.

I agree somewhat.  I have no issue with gay adoption.  I'd  much rather a child live with a gay or lesbian couple than bouncing from foster home to foster.  I also understand that the male/female parental pairing is what could be considered the evolutionary norm.
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Re: Sperm Donor forced to pay child support to lesbian cuple. JUST WRONG!!
« Reply #57 on: October 03, 2014, 11:47:01 AM »
some people just shouldn't be allowed to be a part of this world. if everyone involved in what made this guy have to pay child support was no longer on this planet...it would be a better place