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« Reply #25 on: January 27, 2013, 02:33:30 PM »

when I die and go to heaven, Tito24, Wiggs and I will sit and browse Getbig together.

As long tito is posting the pictures !!!..... Grin
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« Reply #26 on: January 27, 2013, 02:52:56 PM »

Talk to him. And not about the cancer. But about life. Listen to him. Most people want to just be heard. Ask questions about dealing with family, life, and focus on good times. Talk about his hobbies---fishing, cars, etc. and maybe in his honor, take it up. learn from him. You'd be surprise how people feel to NOT have to focus on their illness and be treated like a normal human being instead of a pity-case.
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« Reply #27 on: January 27, 2013, 03:03:41 PM »

Talk to him. And not about the cancer. But about life. Listen to him. Most people want to just be heard. Ask questions about dealing with family, life, and focus on good times. Talk about his hobbies---fishing, cars, etc. and maybe in his honor, take it up. learn from him. You'd be surprise how people feel to NOT have to focus on their illness and be treated like a normal human being instead of a pity-case.
This ^. If someone is dying just be a friend listen to them do not be critical on whatever his life has been.
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« Reply #28 on: January 27, 2013, 03:14:34 PM »

This ^. If someone is dying just be a friend listen to them do not be critical on whatever his life has been.
people are already hyper-critical of themselves already.
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« Reply #29 on: January 27, 2013, 03:31:18 PM »

people are already hyper-critical of themselves already.
Agreed my dad died last year so I know what you are saying. You just got to befriend a dying person, listen to them.
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« Reply #30 on: January 27, 2013, 04:16:08 PM »

tell him to start lifting weights and consume cabbage puree shakes

life takes some effort to be alive and live, it aint no freebee

take enough cabbage puree and youll know your alive even as you feel the life fall out of your bottom evenif you already felt the bottom fell out of your life
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« Reply #31 on: January 27, 2013, 04:26:45 PM »

i get a sick feeling my stomach thinking about death
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« Reply #32 on: January 27, 2013, 04:29:58 PM »

i get a sick feeling my stomach thinking about death
We all got to go Johnny, just hope it isnt painful I want to go out in my sleep never wake up again.
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« Reply #33 on: January 27, 2013, 05:01:24 PM »

i get a sick feeling my stomach thinking about death
get better quality cabbage
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« Reply #34 on: January 27, 2013, 05:33:37 PM »

damn the harmony..ask him when's the last time he had some ass thrown in his face then take him to a ratchet ass strip club and let the man go wild.
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« Reply #35 on: January 27, 2013, 05:41:24 PM »

damn the harmony..ask him when's the last time he had some ass thrown in his face then take him to a ratchet ass strip club and let the man go wild.
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« Reply #36 on: January 27, 2013, 05:55:44 PM »

i get a sick feeling my stomach thinking about death

Same here, Johnny. I do not like thinking about it. Often get depressed when I think about it.
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« Reply #37 on: January 28, 2013, 09:46:33 AM »

"Better you then me"
"Is your girlfriend/wife hot?"
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« Reply #38 on: January 28, 2013, 10:43:45 AM »

Just talk to the man as if you would anybody else, you don't have to talk about death, or unload some long winded philosophical gem.  We're all dying, it's just a matter of when, do you want some jerk off coming up to you and talking about how sad it is that you are going to die.  If they want to talk about it fine, but no need to change the way you interact with anybody just because they are dying.
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« Reply #39 on: January 28, 2013, 10:52:49 AM »

i get a sick feeling my stomach thinking about death
Learn to embrace it with wind in your teeth Johnny and it will be allright.

Here is a song my friend wrote about it:

<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=boRzFrmcM60" target="_blank">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=boRzFrmcM60</a>
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