Tu, Are you saying the one to the left is hotter ?

Taylor, I see nothing wrong with your sexual choices and needs - It's not my cup of chawala but each to there own - I would say though, if you are going to follow this lifestyle do it with those you do not share more intense feelings with eg: your ex as sooner or later it will get messy when the higher level of feelings are involved(love etc etc) good luck and go balls deep 
Touche Will... Touche.
I find them equally unattractive, and I lived in Hollywood... I got fooled at a party once. (I am very grateful they were upfront about it, and allowed me to turn away with no issues and no hurt feelings)
I am not telling him he can't do what he wants, but those dudes are not hot.