.. let's say a getbigger goes to a fitness expo with his girlfriend. Dexter Jackson is right there in person and you are beaming with joy because you admired him in the magazines. Dexter hits on your woman and she smiles. Later she sais he is not interesting in an attempt to save you the embarassement. Later, you see Billy Blanks. He is selling his Tae Bo videos at the same expo. History repeats itself: he hits on your girl. What do you do? Why do these high profile black muscular men flock to your lady? There are plenty of other white slim couples and the males never get disrespected like that. Why God, why??
10 years later, you recall the incidents and come to vent on a bodybuilding forum. In order to make yourself feel better, you say that he did not look impressive in person.