ill worry about those things later on in life, when im senile, or, dead.
Yes, I suspect so.
its all a load of bollocks, the whole text above.
you can theorize as much as you want, if ppl settle with a partner, they become something i dont want to be.
you can put theories out there as much you like, it dont apply for me or maybe anyone.
Just to clarify, I've nothing against you personally and was simply asserting an empirical generalization about tendencies that people who live certain sorts of lives while young tend to exhibit later in life. It's empirical in that it is based in observation, not just theorizing.
The physical aspects are easy to demonstrate (serotinergic receptor count for drug users and how that affects cognition later in life, etc.); the psychological aspects, not so much. Anyway, as I already said, there are always exceptions to such generalizations; maybe you are one such exception.
Even if you aren't an exception, I said that whether it was "worth it" or not depends "on the individual" -- in other words, I didn't assert that the alternative lifestyle is objectively better (though I did imply that it is preferable).
look, my choice is i dont want no kids, that is definite, i dont want to live with a woman, thats for absolute sure as of now.
my goal in life is not to have kids.family i dont give a shit but for my own.this is not something about i have to mature yet or some bullshit like that, i was there already over a decade ago, living the family life.it isnt and never will be for me.
I said nothing about marriage or children, and if I implied anything to that effect then I didn't mean to.
so, what if i cant pull anymore tail in some decade or 2, i live in a rich country and can do like man others do, and visit a brothel every forthnight when i look like shit, instead of financing something called wife , which turn into a bitter and old obese whale slowly over time.
Great! Look, I am (relatively) principled and thus am dedicated to the possibility that I'm full of shit. I'm also relatively young -- you have a decade on me at least -- and plan to stick around this board, unless I buy the farm prematurely.
SO, I propose we come back in 20 years and compare results: we'll compare objective factors like relative wealth, health, and accomplishment, and try to get a handle on the psychological aspects of well-being as well. If I learn that being addicted to prostitutes, being dependent on pharmaceuticals to function properly, waiting a decade plus to find a non-crime related job, punishing the body with dedicated drug use for at least a couple of years, getting arrested multiple times, and sending pictures of my genitals to lonely fat Australian women over the internet is truly the key to this rather short existence of ours, then I'll gladly renege and admit that I was an anonymous douchebag internet loser all along.
Then, after the proceedings, maybe we can have a cock-off (no homo).