Dear God, what a fucking twink! 

This doesn't make much sense. Black men are leaving black women in droves, oftentimes with kids that the black mothers subsequently raise -- with varying degrees of success -- by themselves. Under no circumstances can one partner in a relationship "require" (i.e., force) the other to stay unless they literally physically restrain them in the basement or some such; given this, it is absurd to blame black women for not doing something it is impossible for them to do.
You can define your terms however you like, but I suspect most people reasonably think it fair to describe the black women hunkering down and raising kids by themselves as 'family oriented,' both relative to black men and relative to other races.
How could you possibly know any of this based on flinstone's rather vague description? Pretending to know what you can't possibly know is a most pernicious -- and somewhat common -- disease. Luckily, it is treatable: stop spewing made-up bullshit on the basis of insufficient evidence, read more thinkers who have a better idea of what is to properly acquire facts (viz., who don't make random bullshit up out of the blue and who can ascribe a probability to a stated claim's being true rather than being certain about everything), and take a rudimentary logic course at the local college.
year ago, white girl.....very pretty...thought she was perfect. Wasnt a damn thing I could find wrong with her, seemed sweet and she was hot. with time the more i got to know her, but I noticed some strange behavior....wouldnt ever call me, only text. Girl was afraid to talk on the phone to people.....
parker knowing he had worked in the justice system in the past i showed him some pics of the chicks eyes......he told me to fuck her and run for the hills. Of course I ignored his ass said you dont know what the fuck your talking about this and taht shess sweet and likes me etc..
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with time I started to learn things about this chick scary....not even heartless, Im talking about straight up evil. took her ex's kid, cash, car his money and split...left him hung out to dry. i remember asking her one time how could you take a mans child from him
"wasnt feeling it no more" fucken scary brother.
parker didnt know the bitch from adam I showed him one tiny pic of her eyes and he pretty much foretold the future.
Im telling you this doctor i talked about had probably done a few horrible things

.... I would bet $500 on it. I saw will harris get off a machine in the middle of his set to let this guy work in, didnt say anything he just looked at will it was kind of funny. (i used to train at golds venice)So i know i wasnt the only 1....the eyes never lie. Look carefully at old videos of craig titus