I'm not sure I agree with the majority of GB on this one.
Let's say you are a 34-year-old "catastrophically injured" nonverbal and incapacitated male.
It's hardly as if life is a bundle of laughs is it? Certainly isn't a walk in the park.
So along comes a blow job, presuming of course the victim could feel 'down there', getting sucked off was probably the highlight of his week, if not year.
I think the black fella deserves a medal. Now, if he'd fucked the guy in the ass, I can see how there would be cause for complaint. As it stands, I doubt there were many others lined up to blow this guy so what they hell. You gotta get your kicks where you can in that situation.
No homo.