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MikMaq

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What would you do if you were me.
« on: March 19, 2013, 07:11:20 AM »
Aside from kill yourself obviously.

I'm 26, dropped out of school, and need to relocate.

What would you do?

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #1 on: March 19, 2013, 07:12:56 AM »
I'm 26, dropped out of school

Slow learner?

MikMaq

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #2 on: March 19, 2013, 07:13:46 AM »
Slow learner?
Had a mental break down half way through the semester.

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #3 on: March 19, 2013, 07:14:06 AM »
You asked us this a couple of months ago. WTF!?  

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #4 on: March 19, 2013, 07:15:00 AM »
Aside from kill yourself obviously.

I'm 26, dropped out of school, and need to relocate.

What would you do?
accept that life doesnt always turn out the way we want

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #5 on: March 19, 2013, 07:16:32 AM »
You asked us this a couple of months ago. WTF!?  
At the time I was asking serious advice.


This time around I'm expecting a bunch of bull shit answers like get on the gear.

I'm looking for creative ideas, not any heart felt advice.

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #6 on: March 19, 2013, 07:18:22 AM »
At the time I was asking serious advice.


This time around I'm expecting a bunch of bull shit answers like get on the gear.

I'm looking for creative ideas, not any heart felt advice.
move somewhere like asia where you can live a ful filling life on pennies

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #7 on: March 19, 2013, 07:19:00 AM »
 binge drinking n heavy drug use will help releive the pain
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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #8 on: March 19, 2013, 07:19:24 AM »
move somewhere like asia where you can live a ful filling life on pennies

My thoughts also.  Maybe North Korea.

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #9 on: March 19, 2013, 07:21:43 AM »
Maybe college isn't for you. Maybe a trade like being a barber. You won't be rich but you will always be employed.

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #10 on: March 19, 2013, 07:25:24 AM »

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #11 on: March 19, 2013, 07:27:20 AM »
Aside from kill yourself obviously.

I'm 26, dropped out of school, and need to relocate.

What would you do?

Take it from a man who's settled down, has a good career and great family - there are time's im a little jealous of guys like you, as you can pretty much get started with whatever dream you have. Nothing's holding you back, the world is literally your oyster.

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #12 on: March 19, 2013, 07:29:25 AM »
I would call everyone a narcissist and an attention whore as i posted thread after thread about myself.

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #13 on: March 19, 2013, 07:30:06 AM »
Take it from a man who's settled down, has a good career and great family - there are time's im a little jealous of guys like you, as you can pretty much get started with whatever dream you have. Nothing's holding you back, the world is literally your oyster.
Nah I'm aware. I'm becoming a firm believer most people shouldn't even goto school until their 25.

I look back at the decisions I would of made when I was 20 and see the ones my friends made at that age and it's such a wash. Careers should be treated no differently, than marriages, you spend your whole life with them and divorce is so very costly.

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #14 on: March 19, 2013, 07:32:12 AM »
I would call everyone a narcissist and an attention whore as i posted thread after thread about myself.
I'm self absorbed numbnuts, very different from a narcissist. I use the phrase I because I'm shit at understanding any other perspective.

If I had asked the question what would you do if you were 25, and starting over I'm quite certain many would try to steer this into a personal attack. 

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #15 on: March 19, 2013, 07:34:17 AM »
Aside from kill yourself obviously.

I'm 26, dropped out of school, and need to relocate.

What would you do?

Why would you restrain your options like that? You're not in a position to do so.

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #16 on: March 19, 2013, 07:47:32 AM »

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #17 on: March 19, 2013, 09:25:58 AM »
here's what you do you....you get on your bicycle at 9 am and you come home at 5 pm like every other fucking person in the world.

 your no longer unemployeed your job is to GET a job. Hit up every single store..every single market....hit up the chef at a restaurant and ask him to give you a job in the kitchen tell him you can work as much as you want and you'll be there tomorrow. Show up at 10am or just after 2pm dont look like an idiot walking in there at 6 at night like im assuming you will do so Im laying out instructions for you.

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #18 on: March 19, 2013, 09:34:13 AM »
Aside from kill yourself obviously.

I'm 26, dropped out of school, and need to relocate.

What would you do?

seriously?

I know this must sound super scary for you but....

The best thing you could do is to travel the world, log off from the internet, delete and burn your pc buy a good rucksack and a very good pair of walking boots (Meindl would be top) get a good snugpack sleeping bag, go see the world, you need fuck all money todo that.

That'll heal you - stop finding every excuse to exist, but find every excuse to live.

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #19 on: March 19, 2013, 09:37:11 AM »
Aside from kill yourself obviously.

I'm 26, dropped out of school, and need to relocate.

What would you do?

Just man up and get a job. The man up part is hard if you have depression but you gotta try.

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #20 on: March 19, 2013, 09:38:55 AM »
Aside from kill yourself obviously.

I'm 26, dropped out of school, and need to relocate.

What would you do?

dont feel bad, i am older than you and i didn't go to college yet neither
what part of the usa are you in maybe you could stay with me for a few days if you need a place to get back on your feet
i have only 1 bed but we can share it or one of us sleep on the footon

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #21 on: March 19, 2013, 09:39:03 AM »
here's what you do you....you get on your bicycle at 9 am and you come home at 5 pm like every other fucking person in the world.

 your no longer unemployeed your job is to GET a job. Hit up every single store..every single market....hit up the chef at a restaurant and ask him to give you a job in the kitchen tell him you can work as much as you want and you'll be there tomorrow. Show up at 10am or just after 2pm dont look like an idiot walking in there at 6 at night like im assuming you will do so Im laying out instructions for you.

your welcome

 A job is ok but you'll never get anywhere like that these days. Find yourself someone who'll take you on as an apprentice for electrician, plumber, millwright, whatver you think you may enjoy doing. I think you'd do well in something like this flint. Once you get your certifications you'll be set...these guys make good coin and you don't have to sit in school for 4+ years. One thing is for sure though without a degree in something useful or a specific skill you're not giving yourself a chance at a decent life these days.

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #22 on: March 19, 2013, 09:43:08 AM »
all kidding aside...

find a lonely 42 year old divorcee and treat her like gold.  you can live there for free, tap desperate ass, enjoy the food, and regroup and plan your next adventure in life.


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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #23 on: March 19, 2013, 09:45:20 AM »
Aside from kill yourself obviously.

I'm 26, dropped out of school, and need to relocate.

What would you do?
Seriously consider getting back into school and changing directions in your study.  If you need to take a year off to just work some lame job and get your head together then do that.   You're 26 and fortunately have time on your side.  You don't wanna look back in 20 years and think, "man I shoulda stuck out school cause now I'm just doing {insert whatever}."

Picking a career isn't typically about doing what you love.   Sometimes it is, but most often a career is something you can tolerate on a daily basis, not grow to hate and can often find some degree of happiness engaging in.  Dream jobs are just that...dreams.  Very few people get their dream job.

Now if you're dumb as a brick and wanna be a neurosurgeon or astrophysicist you might wanna reconsider you're potential.   Also, if you dream of being a model and are as ugly as me...LOL....well, might wanna reality checkity-check yo self.   

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Re: What would you do if you were me.
« Reply #24 on: March 19, 2013, 09:46:26 AM »
i dropped classes a few times in my 20s... maybe 5 times?  Took me forever to finish school, but I got my MBA and today I am proud to post on getbig at 12:46 pm in my underwear.