So when your watching a game of football, do you wait until after the games over to make comments?
Perhaps you are different but most people have two ears and one mouth.
Perhaps you should not ask questions if you are not prepared to hear the answers.
By virtue of asking a question there is always the chance of not getting the answer you want.
Why ask if you already have your answer?
If you want to stay in your confort zone then continue as you are. If you dont then at least be open to other suggestions. The choice is yours, nobody elses