Most body builders forget their physiques alone can put them in the he-man category, so they try to overcompensate by acting all tough & badass 24/7. Total turn-off. No one wants a pumped up roid raging alpha-male 24/7. That's flat out stale, boring, and repulsive.
But when you have a masculine manly man, ...with a sweet sensitive boyish side to him... look out!
She gets to nurture and protect, while feeling nurtured and protected too.
A big strong he-man, with a soft gentle ssentitive side = The perfect combination of man & child,
...but only if he's a man in all the right areas and a child in all the right areas.
Unfortunately, most guys esp BB are "men" in all the wrong areas, and children in all the wrong areas.
BTW - It's not so much about a boyish look, ...it's about a demeanor and a quality to the PERSONALITY!
Yeah, I hear you. A good example would be Hitler. Did you see the film "The Fall", which shows Hitler's last days? In that film, he was exploding into ferocious fits of rage every three seconds, executing people on whims, bragging about exterminating the Jews, etc. How can anyone put up with a guy like that? I mean, this extreme level of masculinity is repulsive to everyone, not only to women. Some women are attracted to the self-confidence and decisivness of manly men, but they hate the way these men treat them. Manly men have a tendency towards irritability, and they end up battering their women.
There was a famous study, which showed that men with symmetrical and boyish faces produced the highest degree of sexual arousal in women, evidenced by vaginal tumification(in simple words, made their pussies the wetest). When shown pictures of highly masculine faces, most women experienced fear and distrust. They only seam to be atracted. to machos, when they are ovulating.
Symmetry is an indication of genetic quality, and boyishness, as I said, brings about the mommy in every woman. Consider Orlando Bloom. His popularity, with teenage girls, stems from the fact that he's extremely pretty and looks extremely young. He teases the rising mothering instincs of teenage girls; he makes them want to take him home, feed him and then tuck him in bed-together with them. Such is life.
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