It depends.... I've met some American (Christian) women who married liberal Muslim guys... and the guy never asked the woman the convert to islam, she is free to go to church on Sundays, didn't ask her to wear a veil or a burka or any of that bullshit. Or if the woman converted it wasn't by force, and they still both maintained very liberal lifestyles etc, surviving in the modern world.
Then you have this shit, where the woman succumbs to her husband, who forces much onto her, maybe because of his own beliefs, maybe because of pressure from the family, tells her he won't marry her unless she covers her hair, whatever. Hell... maybe the woman is so blinded by her affection that she decided to do all of those things without being asked in order to marry him.