hapiness at all cost is a bullshit ideology of our modern wicked times, we re not meant to be "constantly" happy, life is about more than that, fact is to be happy and deserve things you have to bust your ass first. It's just impossible to always be happy, but it's easier for people who were loved by their parents and raised at the top of the pyramid instead of its bottom or even middle. These people grow happy and fulfiled, and somehow motivate others to follow their lead, while losers always follow losers. As you reach your 30s you figure that most people who whine all day long do so because they re unhappy with their own mistakes and problems they simply cant get over. Everything and everyone is always exactly where it should be.