True to a degree although some women do. Most feel over powered by a muscular guy hence they go for smaller guys they can control.
i like you man, but this "control" thing isn't based on muscle size
it's based more on "brain size" and mental toughness meaning guys with strong characters and temperaments aren't as easy for women to control, and their characters and temperaments are not based upon the size of thier muscles
my step father and a few of my moms boyfriends would be defined as very twinkish here, as they were maybe a buck 50 @ 6 foot tall, but they were very hard men with guns and they would fight you with no fear