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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #25 on: June 15, 2013, 09:29:19 AM »
I dont understand this topic.  Child rearing is for women...making money is for men.  When my child is up at night I expect the mother to handle it.  She doesn't work so her full time job is baby+house.  My full time job is keeping the lights on and food on the table.  If I'm not resting then I'm not performing my job as needed and that creates risk for the family.  Mommy can sleep when baby sleeps.

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #26 on: June 15, 2013, 09:31:27 AM »
You should've asked this question before she got pregnant, now your life is over

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #27 on: June 15, 2013, 09:38:44 AM »
Go out for a ride
and never go back.

You can't find some 2 minute blocks for pushups or chins?  You sound a little post natal, bro.

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #28 on: June 15, 2013, 09:42:33 AM »
Go out for a ride
and never go back.

You can't find some 2 minute blocks for pushups or chins?  You sound a little post natal, bro.
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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #29 on: June 15, 2013, 09:44:17 AM »
You will eventually settle into a schedule that works.  Give it more time before you panic.  


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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #30 on: June 15, 2013, 09:44:32 AM »
Jack? You're wanted in Baltimore.

Boom!  I can't get away with anything around here.

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #31 on: June 15, 2013, 09:46:22 AM »
Boom!  I can't get away with anything around here.
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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #32 on: June 15, 2013, 09:51:22 AM »
no that's actually how i would handle it. fuck kids
 

Damn, you are a dedicated lifter. Nothing else matters BUT lifting!
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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #33 on: June 15, 2013, 09:52:07 AM »
 

Damn, you are a dedicated lifter. Nothing else matters BUT lifting!
not necessarily lifting. just having an amazing body.  8)

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #34 on: June 15, 2013, 09:57:26 AM »
I dont understand this topic.  Child rearing is for women...making money is for men.  When my child is up at night I expect the mother to handle it.  She doesn't work so her full time job is baby+house.  My full time job is keeping the lights on and food on the table.  If I'm not resting then I'm not performing my job as needed and that creates risk for the family.  Mommy can sleep when baby sleeps.
 

Yeah, this is not 1950. Women are starting to have better jobs and making more than men. And as time elapses, this will occur at a greater amount.
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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #35 on: June 15, 2013, 11:01:48 AM »
I dont understand this topic.  Child rearing is for women...making money is for men.  When my child is up at night I expect the mother to handle it.  She doesn't work so her full time job is baby+house.  My full time job is keeping the lights on and food on the table.  If I'm not resting then I'm not performing my job as needed and that creates risk for the family.  Mommy can sleep when baby sleeps.

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I have 4 kids. Made a home gym. Worked many a 12 hour shift. Always worked out. A home gym really helps. No driving 30 minutes to the gym each way. Also try a Yates type split and one work set per exercise so most of your work outs are 45 minutes.

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #36 on: June 15, 2013, 11:23:52 AM »
Yeah, no driving to gym at 4:30am to walk on a treadmill... IFBB style. Just do it at home.  Lol

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #37 on: June 15, 2013, 11:34:31 AM »
My 2 car garage is now a 1 car garage plus home gym. It's so much easier to work out at home although you need to get adjusted to the environment/small quantity of equipment.

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #38 on: June 15, 2013, 01:15:42 PM »
smother them with a pillow

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #39 on: June 15, 2013, 01:34:04 PM »
How do new parents do it?  Babies are up every 2 hours, getting no sleep.  Can barely even get to work in the morning, just so out of it.  Then while home they require 24 hour care and monitoring.  I lost 10 pounds in the last week and there is no way I can go to the gym.  Even if I could, I have no energy, and then without sleep it would all be worthless anyway!

Any advice? 

Simple. PRIORITIZE!!!!

1) Wake up earlier to go to the gym; go later when the babies are asleep; or invest in a home gym.
2) COOK enough food to make your breakfast meals and lunch meals for AT LEAST THREE DAYS.
3) Your shaker bottle should have purple heart medals. When you can't eat your meals, DRINK THEM, especially at work.

I've been married almost 11 years with two kids born during that time. It ain't that hard. Remember Bill Pearl won multiple Mr. Universe titles, with a wife and family. And, Lee Haney won 8 Sandows under those same circumstances.

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #40 on: June 15, 2013, 01:36:35 PM »
 

Yeah, this is not 1950. Women are starting to have better jobs and making more than men. And as time elapses, this will occur at a greater amount.

But, more women are dropping OUT of the workforce to stay home and raise babies (which has many feminists going nuts  ;D ).

My wife went nearly a decade without working full-time, once we got married.

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #41 on: June 15, 2013, 01:43:22 PM »
Congrats but like most said focus on diet after a few months things settle down focus on diet take baby for long walks

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #42 on: June 15, 2013, 02:29:46 PM »
Next time have TWINS!

Place their cribs close to one another and for some unknown reason they will 'communicate' with each other until they fall asleep on their own around 7:30 each evening.

And at around 6:30 AM each morning you'll hear them communicating with each other through their own language which they apparently understand.

Sometimes they even resent the interruption when you go in to get them up.

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #43 on: June 15, 2013, 02:46:21 PM »
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My wife went nearly a decade without working full-time, once we got married.

Lol at her meal ticket.

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #44 on: June 15, 2013, 05:05:46 PM »
Focus on getting your child settled, forget the gym, just do the best you can, support your woman, remind yourself you won't be right for a while and be gentle on yourself.   You aren't going to die if you have to take some time off from the gym.  Just listen to your body. Your child and your woman should be the focus for the time being.  JMO

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #45 on: June 15, 2013, 05:08:43 PM »
surely you can get one workout per week in


one workout per week can go a long way in terms of maintenance




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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #46 on: June 15, 2013, 05:21:02 PM »
Make lots of money, and hire a full-time nanny to take care of your soon to be burden on society degenerate offspring.

HTH.

This is what I did.  ;D

Hopefully said offspring won't be a degenerate though *crosses fingers*.

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #47 on: June 15, 2013, 05:23:00 PM »
You could "Sweat" to the oldies  ;D It will get better, just give yourself time, you will establish a routine that fits

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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #48 on: June 15, 2013, 07:07:31 PM »
Congrats on becoming a father Worm.
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Re: Wife just had babies! But is lifting over???
« Reply #49 on: June 15, 2013, 07:17:17 PM »
the kids are her problem

they're probably not even yours since they obvious have black fathers



Large white families ftw!