How to increae your value with women (the do's and don'ts)

[flinstones1]

posted this on another board but since its highly unappreciated ill post it here.

- sending her countless meaningless texts asking her how her day went
- always being available
- calling other women sluts/whores in front of her
- treating waitresses and waiter poorly
- not getting sexually early enough on the first date (big one, i will elaborate more on this later)
- failing to lead  during conversation, holding doors open, etc
- getting mad at things you can not control (traffic, long lines,etc)
- apologizing

On the first date, I always start off by grabbing her hand and walking her in a restaurant...if she is not ok with it, dont get nervous. Its important as it will set the tone of the date....your in a movie, ask her to sit on your lap....

hmmm these are just things off the top of my head  

feel free to add/contribute and progress into other topics...as well as bring up certain questions about girls who you are dating, relationship issues, stories, , girls you might be interested in and want honest feedback about on.

[flinstones1]

20 views are you kidding me. you guys only make 50 what do girl like threads per week are galeniko and i the only single dudes who go outside

. this was about kai greene's striated glutes it would have 10 responses by now.

[cephissus]

good thread flint, seems like there has been a suspicious lack of girl talk around these parts lately

[Seven Copper Coins]

Is that the do's or the dont's.....LOL

[ESFitness]

posted this on another board but since its highly unappreciated ill post it here.

- sending her countless meaningless texts asking her how her day went - yea, and come off a an emotionally needy co-dependant loser
- always being available - let her know nobody else wants to spend time with you- calling other women sluts/whores in front of her - let her see how you'll talk about when you break up.
- treating waitresses and waiter poorly -show her how you'll treat her when she moves in.
- not getting sexually early enough on the first date (big one, i will elaborate more on this later)
- failing to lead  during conversation, holding doors open, etc
- getting mad at things you can not control (traffic, long lines,etc) - show her you're an angry hyper violent psycho who'll throw her cell phone out the car window.
- apologizing

On the first date, I always start off by grabbing her hand and walking her in a restaurant...if she is not ok with it, dont get nervous. Its important as it will set the tone of the date....your in a movie, ask her to sit on your lap.... Creepy

hmmm these are just things off the top of my head 

feel free to add/contribute and progress into other topics...as well as bring up certain questions about girls who you are dating, relationship issues, stories, , girls you might be interested in and want honest feedback about on.

this is the worst advice ever.

[flinstones1]

good thread flint, seems like there has been a suspicious lack of girl talk around these parts lately

I understand alot of the older guys are married and some are already into serious relationships but the majority of members here are in their twenties. I could give two shits about another guy's "physique" but threads on chicks are always interesting......i think it be cool if we could get each single  member to be honest about whats going on in their love life, maybe get some guys to step out of their shell and motivate some shy guys to go out there. just the other day I read some rich ass member here who feared rejection cause he wasnt 5% bf     cant be the only 1....

WE can even keep it bodybuilding related. lol...

Ive said this on ripped.com, but the reason I rarely post pictures up anymore  asking for "feedback: is i have found that Women, on average are  much better judges to the physique then men are.....I mean think about it? why the fuck would I ask a straight guy an opinion on my body when I can use a bitch to do the exact same thing?

 she doesnt have to be a gf, just find you an honest chick whos not to hard on the eyes k who has an interest in your bbing to assess your physique now and then. she wont bullshit you like your gym buddies who dont wanna hurt your ego...

makaveli's always texting me pics, in the same pose, on the same cycle for three years and im always telling him to up he dose: .... um looking thicker bro
 I couldnt  do it anymore, ...so  I started forwarding the pics he would send me  to my 18  year old cousin who has the hots for him,and lets just say is a very blunt girl
 unlike me she doesnt sugarcoat shit and give a fuck about your feelings, few nasty texts  and it lit a fire under his ass, boy took it to the next level and he  looks the best Ive seen him. he looks absolutely  awesome right now

 

[flinstones1]

Is that the do's or the dont's.....LOL

the top part is the DONT's!

[flinstones1]

this is the worst advice ever.

like i said those are some big donts....the last part about grabbing her hand, creepy yes but what can I say Ive found it to work most of the time. one of the biggest mistakes guys make is not getting sexually early enough. Ive been guilty of it......
no.... Im not saying stick your hand up her ass and french kiss her,  but there has got to be some sexual tension early on from the getgo.
 You cant get a girl to make out with you on a few dates? , congratulations you just made you a new "friend."

this is also where self respect comes into play. Alot of guys with huge egos, simply cant accept the fact that there might be a girl on this planet that  might not think they are brad pitt... . And will look for every reason in the book as to...
why does it take two  weeks to have make up sex with me
why is it always me texting her first
etc

lastly, just because you are in a relationship is no reason to get too cozy, you should always feel a sense of competitiveness with your partner. Fight with her on purpose sometimes. I was on a date with a girl recently, who pulled out her cell phone on me. I made a few mistakes early on  being a bit too considerate of her feelings and i felt myself being slowly but surely pushed into the friend zone and not being looked at in a romantic manner........took a chance, and out of the blue I said
"I dont understand why your acting like this with me. I take you out for lunch and your stuffing your face with bread texting other guys on your phone like some fat whore "

she flipped....
"who the fuck does this guy think he is?" ...sure enough it got me my bad boy points back.  I knew the relationship would not go anywhere so i cut it off and I told her to fuck off. but i managed to escape with my self respect, when my nuts were practically in her purse.

[Seven Copper Coins]

like i said those are some big donts....the last part about grabbing her hand, creepy yes but what can I say Ive found it to work most of the time. one of the biggest mistakes guys make is not getting sexually early enough. Ive been guilty of it......
no.... Im not saying stick your hand up her ass and french kiss her,  but there has got to be some sexual tension early on from the getgo.
 You cant get a girl to make out with you on a few dates? , congratulations you just made you a new "friend."

this is also where self respect comes into play. Alot of guys with huge egos, simply cant accept the fact that there might be a girl on this planet that  might not think they are brad pitt... . And will look for every reason in the book as to...
why does it take two  weeks to have make up sex with me
why is it always me texting her first
etc

lastly, just because you are in a relationship is no reason to get too cozy, you should always feel a sense of competitiveness with your partner. Fight with her on purpose sometimes. I was on a date with a girl recently, who pulled out her cell phone on me. I made a few mistakes early on  being a bit too considerate of her feelings and i felt myself being slowly but surely pushed into the friend zone and not being looked at in a romantic manner........took a chance, and out of the blue I said
"I dont understand why your acting like this with me. I take you out for lunch and your stuffing your face with bread texting other guys on your phone like some fat whore "

she flipped....
"who the fuck does this guy think he is?" ...sure enough it got me my bad boy points back.  I knew the relationship would not go anywhere so i cut it off and I told her to fuck off. but i managed to escape with my self respect, when my nuts were practically in her purse.

Hahaaaaaahaaaaaaa ! That's fucking great

First part is dead on as well.  There should be no gray area....."I'm a man, I'm attracted to you, and I'm going to try and fuck you."  Dont hit them over the head with it, but get the message across

[_bruce_]

When on a date, at which point do I introduce her to the most likely goal of the meeting - a Bukkake with Tito and Juruth.
Should I set gentle signs like pre-cumming on the waitress forehead?

[chaos]

Dating advice from a 20 year old....lol.

[bigmc]

where does telling her you jack off with your friends fit in flint

[Archer77]

1# Forgo jerking off with a male friend in favor of going out to meet girls.

[King Shizzo]

Flinstones is always willing to lend a hand.

[no one]

there's an importat key your missing in all this dude- how the woman has stereotyped you.

see, I know a girl isn't looking at me across the room wondering what my favourite book is. I attract a very specific type of girl due to 'my look'.

once you figure what kind of girl is atrracted to you its like shooting fish in a barrel, cause from that first moment on I fulfill the stereotype that they are attracted to- self assured. manly. confident. alpha. a leader not a follower. I attract girls who are attracted to those characteristics based on the way I 'look'. and that exactly what I give them. I have never gone on a first date, or met a girl cold in a club or other social setting and not gotten laid.

this post contains the single best piece of advise you'll ever read.

no need to thank me. but I'll take the praise anyway just cause I'm good like that.

* disclaimer. this advise will also involve you, if your like me, with women you typically do not want to engage in any kind of long term relationship with. leopards don't change their spots. if she's shallow enough to be physically attracted to you and jump into bed with you the first night, don't be naive and stupid enough to think you can wifey that shit cause they do. not. change.

[flinstones1]

there's an importat key your missing in all this dude- how the woman has stereotyped you.

see, I know a girl isn't looking at me across the room wondering what my favourite book is. I attract a very specific type of girl due to 'my look'.

once you figure what kind of girl is atrracted to you its like shooting fish in a barrel, cause from that first moment on I fulfill the stereotype that they are attracted to- self assured. manly. confident. alpha. a leader not a follower. I attract girls who are attracted to those characteristics based on the way I 'look'. and that exactly what I give them. I have never gone on a first date, or met a girl cold in a club or other social setting and not gotten laid.

this post contains the single best piece of advise you'll ever read.

no need to thank me. but I'll take the praise anyway just cause I'm good like that.

* disclaimer. this advise will also involve you, if your like me, with women you typically do not want to engage in any kind of long term relationship with. leopards don't change their spots. if she's shallow enough to be physically attracted to you and jump into bed with you the first night, don't be naive and stupid enough to think you can wifey that shit cause they do. not. change.

and that doesn't depress you? I attracted the most quality women when I quit lifting got down to 185 lbs for a while and took up music ....gain. I was a very talented alto saxaphone player, holy hell I attracted some amazing women while In that band.....summer i had the best gf ever..

 Just because some guys are more blessed physically with women, and can be players doesn't mean they are players. Because I know you, and that your a nice guy...like me. And you probably get tired of giving these sluts looking for alpha males what they want all the time. Getting feelings for a girl, and cominig clean with how i felt with her.....from a chick who wants to be dominated (and  usually abused).always ended up pushing her away from me. It Caused alot of problems for me....love is the ultimate form of expression and the whole point of being in a relationship is to complete you as a person and complete your life,  but if you cant even be yourself with her....what's the point?

[bigmc]

there's an importat key your missing in all this dude- how the woman has stereotyped you.

see, I know a girl isn't looking at me across the room wondering what my favourite book is. I attract a very specific type of girl due to 'my look'.

once you figure what kind of girl is atrracted to you its like shooting fish in a barrel, cause from that first moment on I fulfill the stereotype that they are attracted to- self assured. manly. confident. alpha. a leader not a follower. I attract girls who are attracted to those characteristics based on the way I 'look'. and that exactly what I give them. I have never gone on a first date, or met a girl cold in a club or other social setting and not gotten laid.

this post contains the single best piece of advise you'll ever read.

no need to thank me. but I'll take the praise anyway just cause I'm good like that.

* disclaimer. this advise will also involve you, if your like me, with women you typically do not want to engage in any kind of long term relationship with. leopards don't change their spots. if she's shallow enough to be physically attracted to you and jump into bed with you the first night, don't be naive and stupid enough to think you can wifey that shit cause they do. not. change.

maybe she is thinking isnt that the famous author no one

[no one]

and that doesn't depress you? I attracted the most quality women when I quit lifting got down to 185 lbs for a while and took up music ....gain. I was a very talented alto saxaphone player, holy hell I attracted some amazing women while In that band.....summer i had the best gf ever..

 Just because some guys are more blessed physically with women, and can be players doesn't mean they are players. Because I know you, and that your a nice guy...like me. And you probably get tired of giving these sluts looking for alpha males what they want all the time. Getting feelings for a girl, and cominig clean with how i felt with her.....from a chick who wants to be dominated (and  usually abused).always ended up pushing her away from me. It Caused alot of problems for me....love is the ultimate form of expression and the whole point of being in a relationship is to complete you as a person and complete your life,  but if you cant even be yourself with her....what's the point?

I'm just saying. this is advise for guys who want ms right now.

thus the disclaimer.

[no one]

maybe she is thinking isnt that the famous author no one

maybe she's wondering if I drool trying to write my own name.

I get that a lot too.

[Psychopath]

[CalvinH]

maybe she's wondering if I drool trying to write my own name.

I get that a lot too.

Another one of these "How to meet women" threads

the best free advice out there is be yourself.it can't be any easier then that.no faking no lying.


...lol and the drool line cracks me up...I know what you mean by knowing which type is attracted to me and they're always surprised the first time they come over and see 4 bookcases filled...they always say "Have you read all these books"...totally suprises them that I'm a book nerd considering my look

[The Wizard of Truth]

You literally don't have a clue about women

[flinstones1]

You literally don't have a clue about women

lol. Okami I've ignored you for a while, as I dont think much of you...all 5'10 of you.

 Im taller than you, and  more masculine looking than you...put me in a club next to you and I will turn more heads than you.  guaranteed.


Mr 15iu of pharm grade hgh per day who couldnt even win a national show on a pro stack and got schooled by a 46 year old...mr dumbass who got booted from the fire academy. go stalk me some more, working in a supplement shop all day  and fucking some flat assed japanese whore all day to convince yourself your straight must get old..... Im not one to stoop that low, but i dont like wanna be tough guys like you. ...i know the type...white suburban kids from high class families...only difference is you grew up in ireland  
my god that must of been brutal wanna be badass.... Come out to compton LA with me anytime, ill show you around andi ntroduce you to the boys back home.....you dont piss in your pants meeting my friends ill apologize to you publicly.
you try to convince everyone here your some type of racist badass, meanwhile that little MMA fighter tossed you around like a bitch....a big clumsry slow  oompa loompa.

[Archer77]

Getting women isn't hard.  The odds are really in your favor if you make a n effort. Finding a quality woman is difficult if you don't know what to look for and are driven by your hormones.  To many men think they can make a whore a housewife.

[kh300]

posted this on another board but since its highly unappreciated ill post it here.

- sending her countless meaningless texts asking her how her day went
- always being available
- calling other women sluts/whores in front of her
- treating waitresses and waiter poorly
- not getting sexually early enough on the first date (big one, i will elaborate more on this later)
- failing to lead  during conversation, holding doors open, etc
- getting mad at things you can not control (traffic, long lines,etc)
- apologizing

On the first date, I always start off by grabbing her hand and walking her in a restaurant...if she is not ok with it, dont get nervous. Its important as it will set the tone of the date....your in a movie, ask her to sit on your lap....

hmmm these are just things off the top of my head 

feel free to add/contribute and progress into other topics...as well as bring up certain questions about girls who you are dating, relationship issues, stories, , girls you might be interested in and want honest feedback about on.

Hold her hand if you're someplace really crowded, otherwise its a little creepy unless you already know the girl. But yes start physical contact early.

The first meeting is a couple hours at most. establish that you're a sexual predator and shes the prey. Don't buy her a drink. At most agree that you buy one round and she buys the next. Don't worry about the donts. Worry about the do's, you're on a mission no need to worry about the negative. Get her life story. Tell her about your goals, mission, and philosophy on life. By the 2nd or 3rd meeting you better be fucking this girl. It will always be in her head you are not a real man. Don't talk about your car or your watch or your retirement plan.

When you meet up with a chick your only mission is to decide if she is worthy of your fucking.

Oh and if I can teach one thing to increase your game. Stop jerking off. I made a promise to myself a long time ago that my sperm deserve only to be deposited inside a condom whilst in a woman or down a woman's esophagus. They will pick up on your hornyness. Girls are so intuitive a guy will never understand. They can sense your hormones and that you're an animal that needs a release.