This much I do know and that is you have a better character and kinder heart. You probably wouldn't do anything hurtful on purpose.
The most hurtful thing I ever did to my wife, was on her 24th birthday. She'd mentioned that she would like me to take her shopping in Cambridge so she could pick some gifts. I took that as a sign that she didn't want any present to open on the morning of her birthday, i.e. she would pick them all in Cambridge later that day.
NEVER AGAIN LOL.
When your woman says this, it really means "Make sure you buy me flowers, and AT LEAST 3 small 'surprise presents' to open when I wake up and then act as if you are just buying me 'extra gifts' when we go out because you love me so much.
WOMEN.