You guys do not want to face the truth, most women do not like big biceps, and big hanging chests. They like some muscles on you, of course, but way less than what a usual bodybuilder has. The fashion trends nowadays is more and more towards streamlined swimmer physices.
Ronaldo, Nadal or Balotelli are considered very muscular for the general public. Roonie or Jay are circus clowns.
Not that we should care anyway about women think!